March 6, 2026
Is Love Really Blind? Or Just Dumb?
Reality TV fans, rejoice! The Salty Hoes give their best hot takes on Season 10 of Love is Blind. Which of the men give us the ick? Which of the women are queens and which ones are pick-mes? And how does this reflect the dating pool for both genders? Where in the world do men find the audacity? Join Claire and Mel as they dissect the latest season (and dunk on Chris).
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Hello, hello, welcome back to an
episode, a special episode of
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The Salty Hose.
My name is.
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Claire and I'm Mel.
And together, I've said it
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already, but let's say it again.
We are the salty hose.
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We haven't said coming at you
deep from behind.
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The oh, we're coming deep from
behind today.
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I tell you what, we have so much
to talk about.
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This is, like Claire said, a
special bonus episode for you
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today.
Special bonus episode about
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people who sadly don't seem to
have been getting come at from
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behind.
Yeah, not really.
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Wanted to.
Sorry.
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Yeah.
So we are going to push this out
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today or tomorrow.
It's going to be hot off the
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press for you before we get
started.
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We're not going to do I think a
normal week check in.
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But you know what?
It's been a week.
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It's been a week.
It's been a week.
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Not not for us, not so much for
us, but for the world.
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Humanity.
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At large.
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And so we just want to
acknowledge, y'all, we know the
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world's on fire.
We know that our government is
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pursuing a war of aggression
completely unjustifiably.
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Yep.
You know, we know that there is
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a genocide going on.
In in several.
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Places.
Well, in several places, yeah,
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that's true.
Multiple genocides.
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Yes, and you know, the salty
hoes are very clear and where we
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stand very clear.
You can look at our Instagram.
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We we made a declaration.
That's right.
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And we stand by that.
We do and we're not, you know,
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some of those bitches that are
like, I don't read the news or
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I'm not political.
We are.
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We are political, yeah.
But this space, this space is
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for frivolity and fun, and we
stand by that as well.
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We do because in, in order for
literal survival, we have to at
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some point switch off,
particularly if you know, for
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our listeners and for ourselves,
if you are engaging regularly
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with some of the things that are
happening and you know, we, we
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all need space.
I say this in my yoga classes
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too, Like it is OK to have a
moment to catch your breath
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because if you can catch your
breath, then you know you can go
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and be attentive to people and
things.
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So we're being frivolous, but
we're not being frivolous
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without conscience.
And we just wanted you all to
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know that.
Yeah, We felt like that was
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maybe an important disclaimer.
Yes.
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All right.
Well, should we get on to the
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frivolity?
Let's get on to the frivolity.
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Yeah, this is Love is Blind.
Love is blind.
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Yeah.
So I have to tell you, I got a
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text from my sister-in-law
almost a week ago and we were
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kind of talking about, you know,
discussing Love is Blind.
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Anyway, but she said podcast
idea.
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Have you heard of the fuckery
that is Chris from Love is
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Blind?
Oh yes, Oh yes.
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And I was like, oh girl, have I
ever?
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Oh my God.
And then she followed it up with
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this text, which I think you're
going to just love, she says in
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the Salty Ho Venn diagram of
toxic masculinity, dating,
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reality TV and sexism.
He basically seems like he is
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the center circle she.
Knows us so well, isn't that
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great?
What a perfectly crafted text.
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Oh my God, that's epic.
Isn't that amazing?
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We should have her on the
podcast sometimes.
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She's a delight.
She.
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Is a pure delight.
Oh my God, yeah, he he really
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is.
Because let's start with the
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fact that he's 5 foot 6.
Oh, yeah.
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Are we just starting with Chris?
Right, well, I just.
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I should we like build up to
Chris.
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I feel like we have a lot to
unpack.
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We have a lot to unpack.
So So yeah, we could start with
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him in the context of let's talk
about the couples who didn't
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even make it to the the
ceremonies.
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OK, great.
Yeah, OK, Well, sure.
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Let's start with Chris.
Oh boy.
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Oh boy.
Indeed.
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Wow.
OK, what do you think?
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What did you think of them as a
couple before he revealed his
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deep douchiness?
Yeah, well, I didn't like
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totally clock that at first.
They seemed like a mismatched
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couple to me at first, right?
There was an age difference.
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There was a success difference,
right there was.
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A big one.
A big one, Mr. Chris.
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Deficit.
Yeah, right.
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I mean, Jessica is what, an
infectious diseases Dr. right?
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She's got a great career.
She's beautiful.
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She's gorgeous, super hot, great
body.
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Yep.
Great conversation.
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Yeah, like, just, I mean, a
motherfucking prized.
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I'm just gonna say it.
Like such a prize.
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She's a prize with a bow on top.
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And him.
Yeah, like what?
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A little lump.
Oh my God, I love he was a
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little.
Lump Yeah.
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So when they got engaged, I was
like, well, OK, I guess if it
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makes her happy, sure.
Right.
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Like, girl, she clearly wants to
be with someone.
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I mean, she's not desperate like
our girl Brittany, who we're
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gonna talk about later, but
Brittany now, she seemed like
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she really, really was there for
the right reasons and really
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wanted a relationship.
And I think Chris was able to
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disguise his true nature and say
all the things she wanted to
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hear in the pods.
Definitely I because I didn't
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pick up on it at all.
I just thought that she was
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definitely out of his league.
Same.
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And it was like but OK girlie
like you seem happy.
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He seemed pleasant, like seemed
to say the right things
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personally I believe.
Tell me what you think it was
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the minute he went to her house.
Oh, I think you're right.
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His whole energy shifted.
Yeah, like you could see it on
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his face, like looking at her
home, like the jealousy and the
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like, just what the fuck?
Like because she was so low key
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about it, right?
She wasn't flashy.
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She wasn't showing it off.
She.
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Hello, Mr. Devoe.
Is that Devante Devante?
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Yeah, I, yeah, him where he's
like, yeah, I'm so I'm so
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friggin flashy.
We're going to need a prenup.
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I mean that was not her vibe.
No, not at all.
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And she?
Presented with this like
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gorgeous home and he just turned
into a complete tool after that.
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Yeah, that's right.
Didn't he like walk out and just
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like leave for 40?
8 hours, yes.
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He just like totally disappeared
and then was like what's pardon
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me, what's the big deal?
We don't have to stay in
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constant communication.
I don't have to live in your
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pocket.
Oh my God.
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But he couldn't take it.
He couldn't take.
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It because his shitty ass
police, which I don't even
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remember did they even show it
it was OK yeah it was for each
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like him well.
Below average.
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His cat was cute though.
Oh Chalupa.
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Also great name for a cat.
That is a killer name for a cat.
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Clearly his sister or friend
thought of that ex-girlfriend.
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Yeah, it wasn't him.
I know it wasn't him, but I for
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me, that's when it changed.
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Because he was like, fuck, like,
I would need to really step it
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up to be in the presence of this
woman who actually didn't
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require any.
Like, she loved him.
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She was.
So low key and.
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Sweet in his chunky 5 foot 6
shell.
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Oh dear God.
He's so gross.
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He gives me the ick like so bad
so bad.
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Someone on I think Instagram
maybe or Reddit called him a
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rosacea goblin and that's like
my new favorite phrase for him.
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Oh my.
God, that is everything.
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Right.
That describes him to AT.
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Yeah, he is.
Also, like, I mean, telling this
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woman that he needs someone that
does CrossFit every day or
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Pilates every day or whatever.
I mean, come on, buddy.
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I feel like the rage of every
woman on earth except for Breezy
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at that time.
Breezy.
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Breezy.
Clearly we have opinions about
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her, but like, just like the
rage of that comment.
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Oh my God.
And you know that.
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I mean, Jess is amazing.
She is gorgeous, successful, all
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the things.
But you know that will Burrow a
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hole in her head every single
time she takes her clothes off
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with a partner.
Which is so sad because her body
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is great.
It's amazing, but the way he did
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it was so manipulative.
Disgusting.
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To really like dude was going
for the jugular.
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He was, I mean, it was very
intentionally manipulative and.
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Horrible and I don't even think
he was trying to break up with
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her, I think he was just trying
to re establish his dominance
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because he felt inferior.
Yes, like you said when he saw
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her house. 100% he, but I love
that she didn't take it.
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This was a beautiful thing
overall.
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Not with everybody.
I think of this series where a
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lot of the women were just like
fuck you dude, I I don't want.
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This light that was great.
I love how she just like left
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and he was like shocked when he
was like, oh, I wasn't trying to
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like break up and she's like
well, bye.
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OK, bye bye king.
Little man, Little short king.
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Yes.
Like when they went to the bar
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and he was like, why haven't you
text me?
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And she's like, are you real?
Are you fucking kidding me?
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Yeah, that was great.
What?
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And so major slay on her part.
Yeah, this is the energy we all
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need to bring into relationships
A. 100% and.
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Yeah, no disrespect.
We, we don't.
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We can't tolerate that.
No, like it's just not worth it.
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And you can tell like he got
away with this behavior before
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in previous relationships.
This is like his playbook.
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And he's deeply confused that it
also didn't work, although I'm
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skeptical because Miss Breezy,
she is, I was going to say, an
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attention whore.
Does that mean?
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No, that's accurate.
Because the way she was at the
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bar when he came over, like she
was not a real one.
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She was not a.
Girly, she was like, oh, Chris,
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how you doing?
Like, yeah, and it was
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disrespectful to Connor and also
to him.
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Yeah, extremely.
But that's a whole, that's a
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whole other thing.
Well, we can get into that.
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I mean, I will just say.
One more They didn't make it to
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the.
They didn't either.
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I will say one more thing about
Chris, which is just all of the
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CrossFit and Pilates girlies on
Instagram and TikTok dragging
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him is giving me life right now.
It is giving me life.
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I love it.
It's everything.
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There's that one word.
Like the reformer Pilates
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girlies run and hide.
Yeah, behind the curtains.
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There's a bunch of those.
Several Pilates studios have
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like done copycats of that.
It is amazing.
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Love it, adore it.
Oh, just like the audacity.
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Yes, Like I can't to have half
of the confidence of this.
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Man, Oh my God, he thinks he's a
prize and he thinks he's an
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alpha male.
He's 5 foot 6.
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Which, to be fair, once again,
nothing wrong with being short,
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but when you are presenting like
that and you are criticizing
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other people's bodies, including
the goddess of a woman exactly,
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then you know what?
Fuck you, you've opened yourself
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up to.
It I'm going to shame him for
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five foot six, I'll just own it.
I'll allow it.
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I will because yeah, I'm not a
fan of body shaming.
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But when he has done it to
monumental like in a monumental
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way, dude deserves some back.
Right.
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And also he knew he was on
camera.
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Yeah, this is not a gotcha.
It's not a hot my moment.
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The cameras are right fucking
there in his face.
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And he still said that bullshit
to her.
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That is such a good point
because it's not like she
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recorded it.
Yeah, and like posted it.
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Yeah, he was like.
So deceptive.
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No, he had a fucking big camera
in his face.
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Yep.
And he's like, this is what I
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want the world to know.
Exactly, I'm fine with this.
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He doesn't give a flying fuck.
Claire, like you said 8 times at
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the bar or whatever, he don't
give a flying fuck.
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I don't give a flying fuck.
I don't give a flying.
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It's not working out for you,
buddy.
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You wanna talk about the meal?
Loneliness.
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Epidemic, right?
Like, dude, every woman in
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America hates you.
My God yeah, and the fact this
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is another thing.
Sorry, no, we're moving on.
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But no, that's okay.
That he cloaked it
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retrospectively and being like,
it was hard for him when they
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were being intimate and she was
just like, wait, what?
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Oh, and then saying that she was
bad at sex to Breezy, Yes.
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Are you kidding me?
And the she was going, wait,
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that was not the experience that
was happening.
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That wasn't the experience.
He's just trying to shit on her
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afterwards.
He's he is going for the
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jugular.
And that's where he is so
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manipulative.
Disgusting to to bring it up
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because he wanted to sow seeds
of self diet in her brain.
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Yeah, for literally evermore.
Yep, that motherfucker.
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Like, Oh my God.
Well, and then let's talk about
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Bree though.
Miss Breezy Breezy Miss Pick me
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girl.
Oh my God.
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Horrible.
Ick ick energy for.
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Her.
I cannot believe she entertained
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that conversation with Chris at
all.
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She should have shut that down
and walked away immediately.
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She was just so disrespectful to
Jessica and Connor.
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Yeah, and.
Absolutely.
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They're supposed to be friends.
Yes, with Jessica and she's
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supposed to be engaged to
Connor.
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What?
Wow, if a dude spoke to you like
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that and he came to speak to me,
he would be on the floor with
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like my feet in his face.
There is no way I would even
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tolerate that.
I don't think I would get that
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far in that conversation.
No.
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I'd be like, you know what?
We're all done here.
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Goodbye.
You're fucking gross.
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Get the fuck out of my face.
Sorry.
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I'm very sorry today.
Beep, beep, beep.
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Love.
Love is blind.
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Kind of, you know, stimulates
that.
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I just, I'm filled with like the
rage of legions of women in this
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situation.
Absolutely.
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Oh my God, Bree.
Oh girl.
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We've all known someone like
that.
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I feel like that's oh, I have
your back and then like
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immediately stabs you in it
100%.
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Like, oh, this boy is giving me
attention.
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I'm special.
I like that.
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Attention.
I want both men fawning over me
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because I'm so amazing.
Gross, gross, gross, gross,
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gross.
And just the way she treated
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Connor all season, I was really
not a fan of.
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He's a good boy, he.
Seems like a good guy.
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He seems like a very just decent
human being.
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I mean, maybe he got a great
edit, but he just seemed really
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sweet and really solid.
Like super loving.
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Consistent.
Yeah, his wee dumpster job.
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Yeah, although he has a job.
He has a job, right?
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He has a business.
I didn't love that he called
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himself blue collar.
I mean, it's a blue collar
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industry, Yeah, but it doesn't
strike me that he's out there
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working with his hands every
day.
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Right, he's got to be business.
Mind, you know, whatever.
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That's great.
Yeah.
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You know, good guy.
Like I hated the way she shot on
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his apartment.
His apartment was fine.
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It was clean.
Sure, there was beer in the the
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fridge, but So what?
He's a man living alone, if
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that's you know what I didn't
like about her energy either.
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And her mom was exactly the.
So you could see where she gets
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it a. 100% like they were like
twins.
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The hair, the mannerisms.
I can't stand that when like
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women constantly shit on their
partner.
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I can't either.
All she did was like constantly
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shit on him, onto other people.
Yeah, in front of him.
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Like she brings him to meet her
mom and it's just like, oh, you
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should oh, you should see this.
Oh, and you're just like.
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It's a frat house, and you're
like, free.
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Have you ever been to a frat
house?
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Yeah, That was not a frat house,
girl.
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Not even close.
That was a reasonably clean
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apartment.
You and I have seen much dirtier
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bathrooms.
Oh God, we'll talk about that in
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a different.
Episode.
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Oh my God, yes.
Oh yeah, we've seen much more
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horrific.
Things, yeah, places where
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you're like don't touch any
surface right where's.
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My hand sanitizer.
I think I have all my shots.
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My God.
My God.
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Yeah.
Like dude was kind of winning.
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I'm not.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
And then, like, her whole thing,
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oh, there's a keg outside.
You're like, so the fuck what?
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Right.
I would have a keg if it were
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legal in Utah.
Right.
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Like it's easier and more
environmentally friendly for
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parties.
Are you gonna judge me, Queen?
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Yeah, what the hell?
Well, she probably would judge
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me.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Or or not to your face, she
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would behind your back.
Yeah, definitely right.
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Yeah, I think there's like a
just an X through her.
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She would just was not.
No, thank you for Breezy.
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Not kind to anyone, really.
She wasn't.
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I'm not loyal to her girlies.
And then that breakup scene with
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him.
Oh my God she just like dropped
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it in after work one day.
I mean, it was horrible and like
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the stuff she was saying, like,
oh, I don't know if you would be
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a liability.
That girl.
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Disgusting.
Disgusting.
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Let's talk to you about what a
liability is.
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Yeah, it's sister Bree.
Yes, like you know, for anybody
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that would ever say like we're
men haters, Dick punchers, like
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no, because Bree is exactly
Chris.
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Yes, she was punching Connor
where it hurts totally like
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mocking his ability to provide
and and I just don't know if I
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want like a better life with
more flashy items.
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Like shallow much?
Oh yeah and like getting after
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him because he didn't order her
food in a restaurant.
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Oh my God girl you're a whole
ass adult ordering your own
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food.
But you know that if he had,
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she'd have been like, why are
you controlling me?
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Let me order my own food.
It's a no win situation.
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I just kind of feel like that's
her vibe, I don't know.
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Claire, do you think it's hot
when a man orders for you at a
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restaurant?
In sometimes yes.
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Do you like it?
Sometimes, yeah, it's.
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I can go either way.
It's.
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Not like it's circumstantial.
I feel like I.
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Don't have huge feelings about
it.
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I mean, I would be not very
happy if they ordered something
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I didn't want, but if we had
talked about it and then he'd
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said, oh, I will have this and
she will have this great,
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wonderful love it when a guy
takes charge.
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But also it's it's not a it's
not if they don't do it, I would
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never think twice about.
It right, I wouldn't like text
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you after be like Oh my God,
that date was appalling.
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I had to order my own food.
I had to.
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Say what I wanted to the server.
I what a beta.
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X What a huck.
What a beta.
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Like what?
Oh.
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My God.
Stop it, breezy.
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Yeah, I mean, like it could be
hot in This might seem
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surprising to to you and our
listeners.
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I feel like sometimes I go to a
restaurant, I have menu
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blindness, I call it.
Oh, yeah.
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Like I look and it's just like a
blur of words and I'm like, oh,
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it's bring me something.
So if like a person knew me and
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was like, OK, you like this
thing, right?
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Yeah, that'd be cute.
But.
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Or maybe narrowed it down to
like two or three choices.
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Be like, hey, Claire, I feel
like you would like this or
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this.
Yeah, one of those.
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Yeah, like a wee helpful nudge
I.
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I get what you mean.
I really don't like it when the
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menu is really long.
Yes.
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I'm like, I'm not here to read a
novel, I just want some food.
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Give me a few options.
Yeah, I don't really want to
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make big choices.
I love I love those places that
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have like 5 things on their
menu.
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You're like, perfect, Didn't
Gordon Ramsay say That's the
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mark of a good restaurant?
Oh, I don't remember but that
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sounds like.
Something like a short menu cuz
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he's like, you know, like the
The Cheesecake Factory is the
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worst place for food.
It's I'm exhausted.
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Like I'm just like just bring
some food.
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It's like a book.
I know.
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Just open it with your eyes
closed and point to something.
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Yes, it's terrible.
Bring me something without meat.
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Like yeah, but Arlo, shout out
to Arlo.
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They have like 5 things and they
make jokes too.
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I hope you're actually going
there this weekend.
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Oh God, I do too.
OK, let's see when we'll keep
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you posted.
Yeah.
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Other story.
Yeah.
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But OK.
So we love Connor.
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Bree is a pygmy girl that we
don't like.
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Yep.
So we move on.
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Is there anything else we have
to say about these two?
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I mean, it's so interesting that
those, well, I guess there was
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three who didn't make it to the
aisle.
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But like, to me, Jess, Bree,
Chris and Connor are like mirror
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images.
But yeah, exactly.
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Well, I guess that's what a
mirror is.
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I'm like, it's a mirror image
flipped.
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Yes.
So they just really are.
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Maybe, maybe Jess and Connor
could get together.
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I mean, I feel like that would
probably work.
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Wouldn't that be cute?
Because he's like.
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Caring, good energy.
He would take care of her.
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And he would put her on a
pedestal in a good way.
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I feel like he would put any
woman on a pedestal and just
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really treat her right.
I mean, you saw how he treated
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Bree even though she was
constantly shitting on him.
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My.
God constantly.
427
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Yeah.
Like, I can see how that
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absolutely would be exhaustive
to any human, but yeah, she was
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just as manipulative with her.
You're not a good provider.
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Oh my God, all those things that
should have been inside thoughts
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Like I don't know if like I
meant to be with you or if
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you're just here to teach me how
to be loved.
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Fuck you.
That is not what you say to a
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human that you care about.
That is like.
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At any level.
No, like friend partner, never
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anyone.
Like you don't talk to humans.
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00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:14,680
Like that is not kind.
No EW EW EW.
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Bree and Chris, you're well
suited.
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I hope you get together and
destroy each other.
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Seriously.
Yeah.
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Strong feelings.
I know.
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00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,320
Well, Speaking of strong
feelings, actually, can we
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acknowledge one more not couple,
but triad that didn't make it to
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the Oh God altar?
Remember Kevin with an A Kevon
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Kevon.
Kevin, Mr. Word Salad and then
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so bad the two absolute Queens,
Tyler and Kia that walked out on
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him.
Weeds.
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I have so much respect for the
both of them 100.
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Percent like love them.
The way I love the way as well
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the show did it look like it
looked like she was being a pick
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me girl and kind of shitting on
Tyler.
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And then she just walked in.
She's like, yeah, you're a piece
453
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:58,640
of shit.
You you're not ready for
454
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,960
marriage to anybody.
Yeah, go sort yourself out.
455
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,680
Oh, he was.
He was like a limp piece of
456
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,160
lettuce.
Oh, at best, like a wet,
457
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,880
dripping, rotting piece of
lettuce.
458
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,320
It is so like you.
Couldn't give a straight answer
459
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,960
to everything.
It was just like word salad.
460
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,160
Word salad.
I don't want to hurt anyone.
461
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,600
I don't want to make choices.
It's like, well, my man, you.
462
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,840
Got to make some choices.
My brother in Christ, I know you
463
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,440
need to make a decision.
One of these women, or neither
464
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,960
of them?
That's fine too.
465
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,840
Right.
But every time one of them went
466
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,400
in, he.
Was like he changed his mind
467
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,720
I'm.
Going to tell you it's over.
468
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,200
Oh, but wait, you spoke.
I like you.
469
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:41,120
Now you're my favorite.
Oh my God, could you imagine
470
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,680
like the day today with someone
like that?
471
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,880
Oh my God, it would be
atrocious.
472
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,720
Oh, I can't imagine like you
would be.
473
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,440
Putting needles in your
eyeballs.
474
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,640
Every day, all day, every day.
Like dude.
475
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,040
Just.
Yeah, yeah.
476
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,240
So big shout out to Tyler.
Yes, big shout out to Kia.
477
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,080
A way to leave his ass and also
way to not like play into the
478
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,080
producers trying to set up drama
between the two of you.
479
00:22:05,120 --> 00:22:07,960
Yes, good job.
Very good job on that because
480
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,320
they, yeah, there were tense
moments where I was like, Oh no.
481
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,760
It's gonna go down well, cuz I
think production was trying to
482
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,720
make it go down and they
declined yeah to do that so.
483
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,240
Women are smarter.
Than yeah, kudos.
484
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,480
So high five.
Yeah, big shout out.
485
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,520
I love it.
All right.
486
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,760
Well, should we move on to
Brittany and Devante?
487
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,760
I need to breeze before we talk,
all right?
488
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,440
This one, take a deep breath, my
God, take a deep breath.
489
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,800
OK, tell me your thoughts.
Well, I felt pretty sorry for
490
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,560
Brittany because for Brittany,
she seems like a lovely person.
491
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:46,120
Yeah, but she's clearly
desperate to be chosen.
492
00:22:46,120 --> 00:22:47,880
Desperate to get married.
Yep.
493
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,080
Pretty delulu.
Yes.
494
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:55,400
And was basically trying to hold
on to this absolute knob of a
495
00:22:55,600 --> 00:23:01,960
person. 100% Oh my God he is
exhaustive.
496
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,480
Oh he's terrible.
Like I just felt like I needed
497
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,200
to have like a narcoleptic
episode just to escape him
498
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,600
whenever he was talking.
Just like make it stop.
499
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:17,480
Oh my God, make it stop.
Like one of those classic dudes
500
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,840
who you're like, oh, and I mean,
hello, look at Brittany.
501
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,080
She's very beautiful.
She is fucking stunning.
502
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,560
And can we talk about this in a
general pattern?
503
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:31,960
Because both Mr. Alex and Mr.
Devante were like, I mean, she's
504
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,400
not like the typical person.
I don't really like her
505
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,240
features.
I don't really like, you know,
506
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,760
for Alex, I don't really like
blondes and for him I don't
507
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,440
really like dark hair like.
Yeah, and he he said.
508
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,880
And then I think we have some
like, tea that was shared
509
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,880
offline by one of his exes.
He has never dated a woman that
510
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,960
wasn't white before.
And he said that at one point.
511
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,120
Yes, and then?
Bizarre thing to say.
512
00:23:55,120 --> 00:23:56,640
I'm sorry I.
Mean, kind of bizarre.
513
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,960
And then like one of his exes
said on social media that not
514
00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:03,200
only does he only date white
women, but he does not like
515
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,720
black women.
Oh so God, I mean internalized
516
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,600
racism much?
Just.
517
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,400
Oh, that's just gross.
Like, so bad.
518
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,280
Yeah.
And yeah, they they were like
519
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,400
magnetically pulled together by
everything that would be
520
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,920
destructive.
Yeah, that's right.
521
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,640
You know, like of you and I have
talked about Ford like it's OK
522
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,600
to have preferences, but that is
not a preference.
523
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,800
That's like next level weird
shit.
524
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,920
It's pretty weird.
I yeah, I don't like, I don't
525
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:38,000
know, like sure, we all maybe
tend to date certain types, but
526
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,320
like I don't think I've ever
consciously like been like,
527
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,040
well, this specific background,
it's a no or the, you know what
528
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,920
I mean?
Oh yeah, me either.
529
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,480
Like I yeah, I.
Did it a whole like different
530
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:53,680
kinds of it just it's weird.
It's weird, but you know, it's
531
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,800
also OK to want to get married.
I hate how that's streamed.
532
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,240
If you're a woman and you
express a desire, it's like, oh,
533
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,680
you're needy and like crazy.
But she did take it a little far
534
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,000
with buying her own wedding
dress before the season even
535
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,640
started.
That is a.
536
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,640
Little far, it's a little far.
It's somewhere between
537
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:15,160
desperation and like the secret
manifesting shit, yes right.
538
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,800
Like, you know, which I say that
all the time is a joke actually,
539
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:24,680
but you know.
Well, it's also just like, be
540
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,480
here for it.
Sure.
541
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,880
You know what I mean?
Like, because if you're, you've
542
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,920
got everything up ahead, where's
the excitement when you do meet
543
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,360
somebody of like preparing for
that situation, you know?
544
00:25:35,360 --> 00:25:38,720
Yeah, it just seemed like anyone
who gave her the time of day,
545
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,960
she would have latched onto.
Yes, and I just wanted to hug
546
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:46,440
her because like, it was painful
to watch their conversation.
547
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,760
So pain.
It just there's nothing behind
548
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,400
the eyes with him.
Nothing.
549
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,760
He's just sitting there.
Oh yeah, I have to go now.
550
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,240
He has the personality of a
potato like.
551
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,240
That's being kind to.
Potatoes.
552
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,720
Well, that's being mean to
potatoes.
553
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,480
Yeah, Too kind to Devante.
Sorry.
554
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,440
Yes, the other way around.
More coffee.
555
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,480
More coffee.
It would probably be a good
556
00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:09,440
thing to point out this morning
that when I met up with Melissa,
557
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,320
I had one earring in and my
zipper was open and my bag was
558
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,240
open.
So that's that's where my head
559
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,040
is today.
Well I drove to the wrong place
560
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,440
so we are a shit show together
today.
561
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,480
Mornings are hard sometimes,
especially towards the end of
562
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,800
the week, but you know, we, we,
we had lots of thoughts about
563
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,040
this show as well.
So many thoughts.
564
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,760
I don't know many thoughts.
We're gonna be able to even say
565
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,120
them all, but.
Oh my God, I know.
566
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,120
Like.
OK, how much were you dying
567
00:26:33,120 --> 00:26:36,200
inside in that last conversation
where like, they kept flashing
568
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,280
to Brittany and confessional and
she's like, yeah, I know we're
569
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,520
going to get married someday
when he is clearly breaking up
570
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,360
with her.
Like, she will never see him
571
00:26:44,360 --> 00:26:45,280
again.
Yeah.
572
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,440
Accepted the reunion.
He probably blocked her as he
573
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,400
got into his little Honda Civic
and drove away.
574
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,360
Can we talk about the Honda
Civic?
575
00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:54,920
Yeah, for a moment?
Well, I don't know if it was a
576
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,160
Civic.
It was some kind of Honda.
577
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,360
I actually don't think it was a
Civic.
578
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,080
It was along those lines, so of
a very standard sedan.
579
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,880
Amid Honda.
Yeah, yes, like, and nothing
580
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,040
wrong with Hondas.
They're great cars.
581
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,560
They'll run forever.
Love a Honda?
582
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,880
I had a Honda Civic for years
and I have to say I lived in a
583
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,440
neighborhood with some very
steep inclines to get out of it
584
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,800
in the snow and I used to see
trucks sliding down the hill and
585
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,040
I would get up in my Civic.
Absolutely.
586
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,040
So no shade on the Civic.
Great cars.
587
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:27,760
Great cars however, however.
When Mr. Devante was sitting
588
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,760
talking about the prenup.
And let's be clear, what was it
589
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,920
3 or 4 days before the wedding?
He like drops this?
590
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,520
This is a conversation that
should have been had earlier.
591
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,120
Oh yes, and no shade on prenups.
It can be a really good idea and
592
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,200
a lot of situations you should
definitely consider a prenup, at
593
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,360
least see if it applies to your
situation.
594
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,560
But first of all, dropping it
three to four days before the
595
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,960
wedding.
Not a fan of that.
596
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,920
Well, also the way it was framed
because it was like, I really
597
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,440
don't have much faith in this
work.
598
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,600
I.
Know well I mean, but to be fair
599
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,400
we all we all knew that that
wasn't gonna.
600
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,560
Work you could also just say I
don't want to get married to
601
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,360
you.
You could say that you could say
602
00:28:05,360 --> 00:28:09,200
that and and this kind of like
puffing of the chest like I'm
603
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,800
I'm self-made.
I'm like I'm a high.
604
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,880
Roller, I mean I don't know his
situation and I haven't looked
605
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:19,040
it up, but dude looks like he
has like $65 in his bank account
606
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,200
and like a Honda Civic.
Right.
607
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,960
Like I was expecting him to get
into like a, I don't even know,
608
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,560
but not that it just seems so
funny and like she has this
609
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,240
beautiful home and a business
and you know, isn't she like a
610
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,080
nurse as well or something?
I thought she did lashes.
611
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,600
She but I think she's like a
nerd.
612
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,840
Maybe like a aesthetician, Maybe
yeah.
613
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,040
But I just, you know, and she's
got this beautiful home looks
614
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,320
all OK.
And you're just like, like, to
615
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:52,080
me, this series was so good
because it just was like a
616
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,640
picture of dating in 2026.
A. 100.
617
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,640
Percent.
Do you know, like the way he was
618
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,320
just elevating himself so high?
I don't know.
619
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,400
I just think the producers
nailed it with that like visual
620
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,160
of him in his little car.
Like driving off with this
621
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,240
backpack like, well, and to be
fair, let me disclaim this just
622
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:16,560
a little bit because maybe he
has saved up significant assets
623
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,280
and he's driving a Honda because
he's financially smart.
624
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,520
That could absolutely be the
case, of course.
625
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,800
And I support that 100 100%.
Like, you know, we've talked
626
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,160
about, like, guys here in Utah
driving around these big F1
627
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:29,720
fifties that they're in debt
for.
628
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,840
So, like, if that is his
situation.
629
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,160
Sorry, Davonte.
Yeah.
630
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,840
Want that great job.
Yeah.
631
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,200
You know, making smart financial
choices.
632
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,160
I don't know that it is or
isn't.
633
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,720
Yeah, but I just.
I had a visceral reaction to
634
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,400
this man every time he was on my
screen.
635
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,800
It's it was just his like, I
mean, I get that some people can
636
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,840
be introverts.
I can get that some people
637
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,160
struggle with the feelings.
He seems so intentional.
638
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,720
Like I think we've all known
people like this where she's
639
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,960
like oh like cuz you want to
hear that your partner finds you
640
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,640
attractive and that is not
needy.
641
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,040
Yes.
Like that is OK.
642
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,000
Claire, this cuts so deep with
me.
643
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,520
I was so triggered.
I was wow, that was years of
644
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,920
begging for any compliment
whatsoever.
645
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,560
Like please just say I'm pretty
like once a month.
646
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,080
Oh my God.
Right.
647
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,200
Like just something.
That breaks my heart for you.
648
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,120
I'm Brittany.
Like literally breaks my heart
649
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:26,960
because you are a fucking
goddess.
650
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:27,600
Thank you.
No.
651
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,000
But like, I'm not balloons.
I made-up your arts like.
652
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,240
Objectively, like I'm, I'm no
Brittany, but I have had, oh
653
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,880
girl, I have had that
conversation.
654
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,240
Like, can you please just
occasionally compliment me?
655
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,640
I just really need it.
And Devante's response was well
656
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,800
now I don't want to because you
asked for it, so fuck you.
657
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,520
I mean are are you?
Five I know exactly.
658
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,280
Are you 5?
That literally is reminiscent of
659
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,200
me.
Like, you know when you get when
660
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,440
your kid gets to the toddler
stage and they like will throw
661
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,160
something and you're like, you
need to pick that up and they're
662
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,280
like, no.
I'm not going to do it.
663
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,000
It's like when they're testing
the boundaries and you, you like
664
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,920
have a standoff with them and
you're like, we're going to
665
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,080
stand here.
Like that's how he acted.
666
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,640
A. 100% how hard is it to just
go Oh my love, you are fucking
667
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,600
gorgeous, you are a goddess.
That's it.
668
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,760
You're beautiful.
I'm sorry I didn't say that more
669
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,960
often before.
Yes, it's not hard.
670
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,760
And also what was the pattern
with him and other dudes like?
671
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,840
It felt like withholding sex.
Oh, I know.
672
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,560
Again, to like, make them diet
themselves.
673
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,640
I know every time you're like,
I'm sorry you're not into her.
674
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:33,960
What?
Excuse me?
675
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,000
What?
And that that part where he was
676
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,640
like, I need to leave for a
whole day?
677
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,080
Yeah, you're not.
Talking to you.
678
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,400
Oh my God, like if I ever got
married again, that is not the
679
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,200
energy I would want going into
my wedding.
680
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,000
No.
And that's where I wanted to
681
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,080
wrap Brittany in a blanket and
be like, girl, honey, is this
682
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,960
really your dream?
Yeah, let's have a little come
683
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,040
to Jesus is.
This really your dream where
684
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,600
you're literally you're in pain,
you're looking at him going Oh
685
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,040
well, I guess that's just you
like I told the girls when we
686
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,320
were trying on the dresses like
he'll just never be that way.
687
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,360
You are alike to pick yes as
well.
688
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,920
Pick a different man.
Pick a different.
689
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,720
Man.
Throw the whole man away.
690
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,080
Throw the whole.
Find a different.
691
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,640
One and did you notice too,
bless her, her we percentage
692
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,240
just kept going down like she
was like I'm 100% sure and then
693
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:27,680
she was like I'm like 90%
Brittany girl, please, just like
694
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,240
you know, talk to some of these
other Queens, talk to Jessica.
695
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,960
Talk to Amber, she'll set you
straight.
696
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,080
And then she will go punch him.
Yeah, which she is a a fucking
697
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:37,840
queen.
Oh my God.
698
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,000
Team Amber all the way, Yes.
So we talk about them.
699
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,840
Oh, I think we should because I
just she is a real. 1 I loved
700
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,880
her.
That night at the bar, she's
701
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:55,000
Sean. 100% she's the only person
in that whole cast that we saw
702
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,960
anyway on camera.
Tell Chris off.
703
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,320
From the men and the women.
Yeah, that's right.
704
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,880
The only one that like stood by
her word.
705
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,960
Yeah, the men didn't have a
problem with Chris until he
706
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,920
disrespected Connor, right it.
Was a disrespecting.
707
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,640
Jess, it was Connor.
Then they're like, OK, well,
708
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,840
Bros before Hose.
He's dead to us now.
709
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:16,840
That's your girl.
He's.
710
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,000
Like hitting on your fiance?
Yeah.
711
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,640
Dude, step it up.
I know.
712
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,960
Come on, men.
Because, you know what, if a man
713
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,200
was to turn right and say to
another man you're an asshole,
714
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,600
you treated her like shit, we
all know that would be way more
715
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:31,720
impactful.
Yeah.
716
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,680
To a man because he will just
categorize Amber as a psycho
717
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,360
now, right?
You know?
718
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,480
But I, you know what?
I loved to bite her.
719
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,800
Like, she's interesting.
She's like, Ding, Ding, Ding.
720
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,320
There's something there.
She's a lot.
721
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,840
Yeah.
But in a good way.
722
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,600
But in a good like, because
she's kind, consistent.
723
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,280
She's consistent, really a
lovely person and.
724
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:57,280
Clearly a great mother.
Oh, an amazing mother like you
725
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:58,760
can see that.
You can see that from the way
726
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,440
her child just interacts with
her and showed it to the single
727
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,720
moms.
And but that part where it was
728
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,960
like like, I've never heard her
be elevated or sweary.
729
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,880
And I loved when they were in
the bar and she just like got
730
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:17,080
this voice on and she was like
God, narcissistic fuck like I
731
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:19,360
was.
So angry on justice behalf.
732
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,120
I loved it.
It was a beautiful sight.
733
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,360
That's a girl's girl right
there.
734
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,600
Like I was up by to my chair.
Yeah, me too.
735
00:34:25,639 --> 00:34:28,600
Just being like you are a queen.
Humping my fist.
736
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,719
And when he came up and he was
like, you don't like me?
737
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,840
And she's just like, no.
Like she just stared at him like
738
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,639
he was a piece of shit.
I know.
739
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,320
And then her comment like oh,
like you're you think you're
740
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,760
gonna find another hot doctor
flipped her hair and walked away
741
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:42,880
from him.
It was perfect.
742
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,679
Amazing.
Oh my God. 10 out of 10 No.
743
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:47,880
No. 10 out of 10 Amber, you are
a queen.
744
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,840
You're a queen.
We love goddess, we love you.
745
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,639
You were.
You were the only real one,
746
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,199
because hello Miss Breezy
twirling her hair.
747
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,040
Chris.
Oh, yeah.
748
00:34:56,199 --> 00:34:57,800
Oh, she wasn't going to bed.
I am.
749
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:02,360
Oh my God, yeah girl, you did
not shine in that.
750
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:03,560
Moment.
No, but Amber did.
751
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:09,440
Amber is a Merrick star.
Yeah, that's an inside joke from
752
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,440
us.
Yep.
753
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,680
Anyway, she burned brightly.
She burned brightly.
754
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,320
We'll say that.
Well, let's talk about Jordan.
755
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,880
Yeah, that was an interesting 1
for me.
756
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,440
He is, he is interesting.
Tell me your thoughts on him.
757
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,120
Well, I mean, at first in the
pods, I was like, well, I kind
758
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,880
of like him.
He seems very affable.
759
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,080
He seems kind.
He's constantly feeding people,
760
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,680
which I think is kind of
adorable.
761
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:30,640
It was very.
Cute.
762
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,120
I mean, it was kind of humorous
to watch him eating all the
763
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,960
time, like shoving tacos in his
face.
764
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,320
Well, she's like getting deep
and like, you don't know how
765
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,800
much is the editing or whatever,
but it was hilarious.
766
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,640
Or like, you know, in the
kitchen, like scarfing down that
767
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,000
pizza.
Hilarious, but you know, he
768
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,640
seemed like a pretty nice,
affable guy.
769
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,040
Just like a good guy.
That being said, I don't think
770
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,440
he was mature enough for Amber.
I don't think he was ready to
771
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,680
settle down.
Yes.
772
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,800
And I just think in that way
they were mismatched.
773
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,240
So as as nice as he seemed to
be, Yeah.
774
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,280
I mean, I'm sorry, but that's
another like, you know, grow up,
775
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,920
men, it's time to grow up.
It's you're in your 30s and
776
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,560
you're potentially considering
getting married to a single mom.
777
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,800
Yes.
And you want to relocate her to
778
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,320
a place where she would have to
drive an hour every day so you
779
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,560
can be closer to bars?
Excuse me?
780
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,280
Like what in the actual fuck?
Grow the fuck up.
781
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:26,680
Yeah, that part really annoyed
me.
782
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,760
And it was funny because I was
watching it with my son.
783
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,160
My son is 24 years old, so it
would like he's not a wee child,
784
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,080
but it was funny because we were
watching it and my son is a
785
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,360
musician.
So he goes out regularly,
786
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,520
probably more than most to shows
like both performing and just
787
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,560
going to because you support the
scene, right?
788
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:48,280
Of course.
And he just said, mom, how many
789
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,320
concerts is this guy going to
like?
790
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,640
Because he kept going on about
you can't get concerts on mine,
791
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,720
Vernon.
And it's like, how many concerts
792
00:36:56,720 --> 00:37:00,160
are you going to like?
I like to go to concerts.
793
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,600
I can't even remember the last
concert I went to.
794
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,240
It was probably like a year ago.
I don't know, right.
795
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,960
Like it's not like dude really
that is worth the tree it off
796
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,040
tree it off of having this
working single mother.
797
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,040
Relocate herself, drive and her
child.
798
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,640
And can we talk about the
winters they would potentially
799
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,280
have, Yeah, a commuting an R
each way.
800
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,800
Right.
And like what happens to her
801
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,680
school?
Like I think they were probably
802
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,520
there for the schools at least
partially.
803
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,440
Like what the consistency?
Like could you maybe say, oh,
804
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,720
we'll stay here till she's done
with elementary school?
805
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,600
Yeah, something that's a
compromise, dude, when you're a
806
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,680
grown up and there's a child
involved.
807
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,400
Right, but he's not a grown up
is the problem.
808
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,720
Like, as sweet as he is, he's
not a grown up.
809
00:37:42,720 --> 00:37:45,680
I mean, you saw his fridge with
rotting food in it.
810
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,120
Oh yes, And again, it's like you
didn't have to go out of town
811
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,760
for an emergency.
You knew you were gonna be gone
812
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,720
planning and you didn't bother
to throw that nasty ass food out
813
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:57,960
of your fridge.
Yes, like do you know that fresh
814
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,600
vegetables go off?
Like yeah, after.
815
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,320
A couple of days.
Is gonna go off.
816
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,240
Never mind like 6 weeks Sir.
You could tell that Connor
817
00:38:05,240 --> 00:38:07,040
cleaned out his fridge right
before, right?
818
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,560
Because the Tupperware was still
drying.
819
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,080
Like, you know, OK, we didn't
quite put it away, but we did
820
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,000
throw away the nasty food.
And we did wash.
821
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,720
It and we did wash it.
That's, Yeah, that's that's
822
00:38:15,720 --> 00:38:16,440
fair.
Yes.
823
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,800
Oh, my God, Adult to me, Jordan
would be the kind of guy that
824
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,880
you would come home after a
really long day and he had been
825
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,000
off all day.
Yeah.
826
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,640
And the house would be a mess.
And he would be in the basement
827
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,800
in one of those chairs that give
me the, the, like, video game
828
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,560
chairs.
It's not bad with his headphones
829
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,880
on playing video games.
And then he'd.
830
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:37,320
Be like oh, what should we do
for dinner?
831
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,640
What's for dinner?
Yeah are we going to flock
832
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:41,280
later?
Let's.
833
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,960
Order a pizza?
Yeah, you know.
834
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,640
Like, dude, I know you're a nice
guy, but like, grow up.
835
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:47,720
Step it.
Step it up.
836
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,720
Grow up.
Yes.
837
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,560
Like, yeah.
Yeah, we don't hate you, but
838
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,360
like.
We don't just grow up, but come
839
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,840
up to Amber's level.
Yeah, Just like a little bit.
840
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,840
And she had this beautiful, cute
little home and again, as well
841
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:02,320
decorated, yeah.
She did all the work herself.
842
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,160
Well, which was amazing.
And also, if you were going to
843
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,120
come in as a stepparent figure,
like, guess who needs to be
844
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,920
first?
The kiddo, the.
845
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,440
Kid, especially when you're
what, like 7?
846
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,600
Yeah.
And her wee bedroom and her wee
847
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,080
heist that she's had her whole
like dude.
848
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,800
Yeah, you're gonna move her.
Cuz you want to go to the
849
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,480
concerts.
Far more often like and if it's
850
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,320
not for you, that's fine, but
then don't get engaged to her.
851
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,280
Exactly.
Yeah, it's like it made me think
852
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,320
of Jerry Maguire.
I haven't seen that movie in so
853
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,440
long.
It's a classic.
854
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,240
It is and I've seen it, it's
just probably not since it came
855
00:39:38,240 --> 00:39:39,160
out.
It's so good.
856
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,080
Where?
He talks about like where if
857
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,560
you're going for the single mom
like you, you got to respect
858
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:45,680
that.
You have to.
859
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,120
And again, we all have choices
you don't have to do.
860
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,760
That exactly.
You don't have to date a single
861
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,440
mom.
Yeah, you know.
862
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,000
He could have been like, oh, you
have a kid?
863
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,560
Oh, sorry.
Like, I think you're amazing,
864
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,960
but I'm just not ready to do
that well.
865
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,280
And remember, he said that that
was going to be a deal breaker
866
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,920
for him.
And then he changed his mind,
867
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,120
which is not good, not a good
idea.
868
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,960
Should have stuck with that.
Because again, it is OK to have
869
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,080
preferences.
Totally.
870
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:10,160
Personally I just my hard rule
right now is I I will not date
871
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,160
you if your kid is not in high
school.
872
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,680
Yeah, I think that makes sense
for our time of life, 100%.
873
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:16,960
You don't want to raise more
babies.
874
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,800
You do not want to.
And I have had not one but two
875
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:24,200
experiences in my past dating
life of that where I have been
876
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,360
like, oh, I don't really want to
go down that road, but oh, I
877
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:27,480
like you.
I'll go down that road.
878
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,400
And it doesn't end well.
It doesn't work out.
879
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,560
It doesn't work out.
Yeah, especially if you have men
880
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,400
that aren't demonstrative.
But that's a whole other story.
881
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,120
But you are allowed to choose.
Like I matched with this lovely
882
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,080
guy not that long ago.
We were about to go on a date.
883
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,760
He mentioned kids.
I didn't even think it would be
884
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,400
pot.
He was like 57 years old.
885
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,120
And he's like, I have a 7 year
old.
886
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,240
Oh dude.
And I was like, OK, can I be
887
00:40:53,240 --> 00:40:55,800
honest?
Do you know how to operate a
888
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,200
condom right?
There's a thing called a
889
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,640
vasectomy.
Yeah, get that done right.
890
00:41:00,720 --> 00:41:03,160
Not that big of a deal.
Yeah, and it was just like, I,
891
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:04,880
I'm sorry, like I can't, you
know?
892
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,920
So Jordan, you could have said I
love the idea of fatherhood, but
893
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:11,840
I don't think I'm ready.
I'm not ready.
894
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,280
Yep.
So you know what, Jordan?
895
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,040
We wish you well, but please
grow up a little bit.
896
00:41:15,240 --> 00:41:17,200
And also don't fuck up Amber and
her kid in the.
897
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,280
Process.
Yeah, that's right.
898
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,400
That's not OK.
Stay away from Amber.
899
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,840
She's too good for you.
She really is.
900
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,240
But by the way, can we just talk
about the fact that the kid was
901
00:41:24,240 --> 00:41:25,480
at the wedding?
How did you feel about?
902
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,120
I didn't like that.
I didn't like the kid being on
903
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,560
camera.
And actually it was right after
904
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,560
I said I was like, oh, I'm so
glad she chose not to have the
905
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,200
kid on camera.
And then like there she was.
906
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,720
I was like God damn it.
Oh my God, that is hilarious
907
00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:36,600
because we did not watch this
together.
908
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,200
No.
And when it was like the point
909
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,880
right before and I said oh,
they're not bringing the kid to
910
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,240
the wedding.
I really respect.
911
00:41:43,240 --> 00:41:46,240
That we had exactly the same.
She appeared.
912
00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:50,080
We're like, Oh no, because like.
That part broke my heart.
913
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,520
Like where they were walking
night after getting married.
914
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,600
The kid was sobbing like did you
notice?
915
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,840
That did, yeah.
She was standing sobbing.
916
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,800
Yeah.
And I, it was hard to tell why,
917
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,000
whether she was sad or happy or
over stimulated or like what was
918
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,200
happening could be anything.
Yeah, but she was just there
919
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,440
alone.
Like there wasn't a family
920
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,320
member or a friend like holding
this child.
921
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,840
Like that child needed to be
held.
922
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,200
She needed some comfort.
It really broke my heart because
923
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,400
you're just like, Oh my God.
Like, obviously she was probably
924
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,760
like, I don't understand.
Yeah, my mom is on the TV show
925
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,640
Getting Married to a Stranger.
I know none of this makes sense.
926
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,920
What I'm 7?
Well, and also I really hated
927
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,640
that, Amber said.
I do.
928
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,840
But like I totally get if you
don't do like that part in the
929
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,000
ceremony it.
Felt to me, and I'm just like, I
930
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,360
don't know, making this up
maybe.
931
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,680
It felt to me like the two of
them had agreed off camera they
932
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:37,840
weren't going to go through with
it.
933
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,000
And then she kind of flipped
right at the end and then he was
934
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,600
like, oh shit, well I better say
yes then.
935
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,720
Yeah, well, and you could see it
on his face because I really
936
00:42:44,720 --> 00:42:47,000
think it was true where he said
to sister, I really don't know
937
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,920
what to do.
Yeah.
938
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,240
And she was great.
She was like, just follow your
939
00:42:50,240 --> 00:42:50,760
heart.
Yeah.
940
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,440
And you could kind of see it on
his face when he's sorry, where
941
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,600
he was like, OK, yeah, this
woman's a big prize.
942
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,920
She is a big something.
But like, yeah, it was bizarre.
943
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,320
Yeah.
I would never want to marry a
944
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,920
person where I would have to say
it's OK if you say no.
945
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,640
Oh my God no.
It better be a hell yes.
946
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,760
Right.
And like I will admit, it has
947
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,280
taken me a while to get there.
Yeah, that's it's a lot of
948
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:17,720
therapy for both of us, that's
true.
949
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,000
And at one point, I may have
been Amber.
950
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,280
Yeah.
Even Brittany.
951
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,400
Well, no, I don't know.
You were never Brittany but
952
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,680
Amber.
Like, you know, but like,
953
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,840
viscerally.
Fuck no.
954
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,000
Fuck no.
No, like girlies, you don't have
955
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,600
to.
Do this.
956
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,680
You don't have to do this.
We make our own money.
957
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,440
Yeah.
You all own your own homes.
958
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,200
Exactly.
You're.
959
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,840
Fine, you're way ahead of these
men.
960
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,040
Well, Speaking of deal Breakers
that should have killed a
961
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,960
relationship before it ever got
to the altar, what about Emma
962
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,040
and Mike?
Oh my goodness.
963
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,240
OK, Wow.
Yeah.
964
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:56,280
I mean, that was an interesting
edit because basically we at the
965
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,880
end of the show, I feel like I
know nothing about Mike other
966
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:00,840
than his family is Italian and
he wants kids.
967
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,040
Yeah, that's literally the only
thing I know about Mike.
968
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,680
There was no substance.
Yeah.
969
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,400
Yeah.
That he really wants kids.
970
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:07,600
It's a deal breaker.
Yeah, that's all.
971
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,040
That's it.
And it's a deal breaker.
972
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,160
But yet he got engaged to a
woman who does not want
973
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,760
children.
It's like, wait, what?
974
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,040
What is happening?
What is happening?
975
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,360
Well, but like equally.
OK.
976
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,400
Can we just for a minute talk
about Emmas sister?
977
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,920
Let's do it.
That was.
978
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,840
An intervention needs to happen
there.
979
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,360
Girl is not okay.
No.
980
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,320
Like where she was like she's
drowning.
981
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,920
Fucking hate kids don't have
them.
982
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,440
And then these two beautiful
angelic children.
983
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,200
And again, I was watching it
with my son.
984
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,960
My son is a great kid, which I
know your kid is too.
985
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,200
They will sit and watch all
these.
986
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,520
Shows I know my son was so
engaged it was.
987
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:49,080
Yes, and he was just like, mom,
these children are beautiful and
988
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,600
he's like, they're so
intelligent.
989
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,640
Like look, they are amazing
children.
990
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,200
What?
Why is this woman so
991
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,680
dissatisfied?
And like I know that it's
992
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,640
probably because she probably
has a baby man and gets no help.
993
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,080
I'm making assumptions, but.
I think that's probably a fair
994
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:04,560
assumption.
There could be a whole slew,
995
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,920
like postpartum stuff, like
that's true.
996
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,800
My heart aches for her one level
and then the other one is like,
997
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,280
well, hello, Emma's parents,
let's talk about them too.
998
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,120
Like do you see the things your
child is saying?
999
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,960
Yeah, we're oblivious.
And she was like a therapist or
1000
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,600
something.
They were living in La La land
1001
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,000
to the parents.
My God.
1002
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,800
Yeah.
But I mean, when the sister said
1003
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,160
that when she's like, well, I
don't necessarily regret having
1004
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,720
kids, but if I could do it
again, I wouldn't have them.
1005
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,440
I actually paused the television
cuz my son was like, he was like
1006
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,480
kind of a gas and I paused it
and I was like, I was like, I
1007
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,040
cannot believe she said that on
camera.
1008
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,480
And I was like, my love, my
baby.
1009
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,600
Yes, in every lifetime I would
choose you.
1010
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,680
Every lifetime, yes.
And that's true.
1011
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,160
That's making me like, cry,
right?
1012
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,720
I know like we had a little
moment.
1013
00:45:48,720 --> 00:45:50,680
I'm like that.
Those words would never come out
1014
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:51,920
of my mouth.
Never.
1015
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:56,880
Yes, and like, because let's
just acknowledge raising
1016
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,400
children is not for the faint of
heart it.
1017
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,760
Can be hard.
It is very hard and especially
1018
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,320
when they are little and like
even when we go to coffee shops
1019
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,320
and I see moms with like little
children, I'm like, hi on God's
1020
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:08,480
green earth.
Did I ever do that?
1021
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,120
Like I don't.
Well, you have three of them.
1022
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,440
I only had one, but but it's
hard, right?
1023
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,840
It can be hard.
But never like.
1024
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,640
And I'm not throwing shade on
her.
1025
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,280
I do think that the woman is in
need of help.
1026
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,000
She needs some help.
Because like postpartum is very
1027
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,640
real and can go not just when
the baby's born, but four years
1028
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:25,560
for.
A long time, yeah.
1029
00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:28,760
And I just like, I feel bad that
she's clearly in the dark spot
1030
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,320
and everybody is kind of
ignoring it.
1031
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,320
Yeah, especially Emma's parents.
Yes, Oh my God, oblivious.
1032
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:35,560
Well.
Because they were oblivious to
1033
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,480
Emma.
Yeah, like saying, oh, we didn't
1034
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,400
realize you were struggling in
middle school.
1035
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:44,440
My, my dudes, I know.
Are you kidding me right now?
1036
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,200
Like also she's a therapist,
it's their youngest kids, so
1037
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,880
they got some experience in the
bank.
1038
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,400
Like, I'm not saying that
because like, you know, my, I
1039
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:59,080
have made not the great parental
like behaviours or choices, you
1040
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:03,040
know, that's universal, but you
know, you're like.
1041
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,280
You've had some experience
already, right?
1042
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,640
And you adopted this child.
And you're a therapist, you work
1043
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,880
in this therapeutic space.
And also, I would assume you're
1044
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,640
aware of some of the, you know,
just different styles of
1045
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,320
parenting if you are fostering
children or adopting them,
1046
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,040
right?
Like, and I like, I had foster
1047
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,840
kids.
It's a different approach,
1048
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,720
right?
Because it has to be Yeah.
1049
00:47:25,720 --> 00:47:27,800
And for them, just be like, oh,
we had no idea.
1050
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:29,680
Right.
And I'm also a little confused,
1051
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,960
like, did you not look up one
thing about adopting a child not
1052
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:34,520
of your race?
And I'm not saying you shouldn't
1053
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,840
do that, but I'm saying maybe
you should have educated
1054
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,360
yourself a little bit more about
some challenges they would face.
1055
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,440
Like a little bit of informed,
yeah, that just was.
1056
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:44,200
A dumpster fire.
Bizarre.
1057
00:47:44,240 --> 00:47:47,360
Yeah, really bizarre.
And so why did her mother wear a
1058
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,600
wedding dress to her wedding?
Did you see that?
1059
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,920
Like, it wasn't quite white, but
it was, like, all blinged out
1060
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,840
and, like, close to white.
Did she have like a weird like
1061
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,040
Mormon modesty layering?
Situation.
1062
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,360
Too.
It was just a high neckline.
1063
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,600
Yeah, because what, what am I
thinking of?
1064
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,000
Sorry, my friends going
somewhere else.
1065
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:10,360
But they what surprised me about
them is, I don't know, she was
1066
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:15,560
just like, OK, yeah, I don't
think she really wanted to marry
1067
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,360
him.
No, I don't think so either.
1068
00:48:17,720 --> 00:48:20,880
And you could see that even in
the pods like where she was just
1069
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,320
like.
Well, he was the second choice,
1070
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,080
right?
And Connor said no to her.
1071
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,640
And so then she went from back.
Yeah.
1072
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,240
And all of a sudden was
enamored.
1073
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:30,440
Yeah, that just was weird to me.
Yeah, that was weird.
1074
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,480
I hope.
I mean, Emma seems like a really
1075
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:37,080
lovely person and she might have
some therapy to do, but she.
1076
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,800
I mean, don't we?
All right, of course.
1077
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,080
But she seems lovely and I hope
she finds someone better than
1078
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:42,480
Mike.
Mike is just.
1079
00:48:43,240 --> 00:48:45,480
Blah.
Well, yeah, like we don't know
1080
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,240
anything about him.
Can't really comment on Mike
1081
00:48:47,240 --> 00:48:48,800
because we know.
What's your favorite color?
1082
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,040
Yeah, no idea.
Like what?
1083
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,880
Yeah, yeah.
Just a wee bit lackluster there.
1084
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,400
Yeah.
I did see this funny reel that
1085
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,120
was sort of indicative of the
whole series.
1086
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:01,160
It was hilarious where it would
show the men and they were just
1087
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,800
like, you know, the girl would
be like, what's your favorite
1088
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,200
color?
And they go blue and, like, not
1089
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:10,240
a not ask it back.
And she'd go, Oh my God, I'm in
1090
00:49:10,240 --> 00:49:13,120
love with you.
I was like, I feel like that
1091
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,160
was.
Kind of in these.
1092
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,480
Couples tickative of most of
them.
1093
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,840
Brittany and Emma.
Yeah.
1094
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,480
Yeah.
All right.
1095
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,960
Well, should we move on to our
friends Alex and Ashley?
1096
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,040
Oh my God what a shit show that
was.
1097
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,280
My God.
I mean, there could be a whole
1098
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,720
episode on them.
Can I just point out the first
1099
00:49:32,720 --> 00:49:35,080
thing that struck me?
I mean, there's a list with him.
1100
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,160
Oh my God, what a disaster that
man is.
1101
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,400
Did he even wash for the
wedding?
1102
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,200
No, he didn't.
So there were crumbs in his
1103
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,160
beard, there was dandruff on his
suit, there was lint on his
1104
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,200
suit.
His suit jacket didn't fit like
1105
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,120
his suit.
It wasn't tailored at all.
1106
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,880
It was huge.
Yeah, he wasn't wearing white
1107
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,440
socks with his black shoes and
black pants.
1108
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,920
Like, what are we?
What are we?
1109
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,880
I mean, he didn't shave.
No, he didn't trim his beard.
1110
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,760
It was so when you see how
groomed he was earlier in the
1111
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,360
season and the way he showed up,
he hadn't even done his hair.
1112
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,600
His hair looked like it hadn't
been washed in four days.
1113
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,280
I don't think I.
Had the beard hadn't been
1114
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,880
trimmed and that was my first
thought was like you are showing
1115
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,640
up to a wedding looking like you
just rolled out of breath
1116
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,200
breath.
Bed.
1117
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,320
My brain was going to.
He didn't even look like he
1118
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:20,920
brushed.
I mean.
1119
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,160
Oh yeah, I don't think he did.
Yeah, he probably did.
1120
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,040
Was like breath.
But shitty pants?
1121
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:27,880
Jesus.
Yeah, I can't get the words.
1122
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,880
Of that he looked unkempt yeah,
extremely.
1123
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,520
And so you could tell,
obviously, he wasn't getting
1124
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,960
married that day, but you're
like, just for your own
1125
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,320
self-image, wouldn't you want
to, like, look a little more
1126
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:38,320
presentable?
Yes.
1127
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,400
Just weird.
Even go out of an average day.
1128
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,560
Yeah.
But also can we talk about that
1129
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,640
because before he went in, can
we kind time many times this man
1130
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,840
was like, I am confident.
Oh God, he said it like 800
1131
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:51,600
million times.
And you're like, what are you
1132
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,040
confident about?
Also, my dude, like, no you're
1133
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,080
not.
Yeah.
1134
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,880
I.
Know Mr. Australian currency day
1135
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,560
trader like.
God.
1136
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,440
What the hell?
Day trading.
1137
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,000
Come on, that's just buddy.
Oh my God, like he.
1138
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,440
But I feel like if she had a
said yes, he would have just
1139
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,440
said yes.
No, I don't think so.
1140
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,600
I think he would have taken his
chance to humiliate her.
1141
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,360
Yeah.
He didn't even like her.
1142
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,520
He had contempt for her attempt.
Yeah.
1143
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,120
From the minute he met her,
yeah, like it.
1144
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,720
It just was gross.
So yeah.
1145
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,040
Oh yeah.
Oh, this?
1146
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,000
Oh well.
What did you think of her
1147
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,680
approach though?
Did you see that coming?
1148
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,720
I didn't see that coming.
You know what, I actually liked
1149
00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:37,360
it.
It was a Dick move, but I think
1150
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,000
that in this case it was
justified.
1151
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,560
And you know, I'm not really an
Ashley fan cuz like her whole
1152
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,280
MAGA thing like going on right
like liking him cuz they're
1153
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,040
aligned on politics.
You're like, oh, I don't like
1154
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,280
that we're.
Moving to Florida.
1155
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,360
Yeah, yeah.
So I don't know that she was my
1156
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:55,040
favorite, but it was sad to see
like just her die inside every
1157
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,160
time he like started talking his
like word salad, compulsive
1158
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,040
lying monologues right about
soccer and day trading in
1159
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,320
Florida and Arizona and
Australia and the travel nurse
1160
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,040
he used to date but maybe still
hooks up with.
1161
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,080
And it like it just never
stopped and like never stopped.
1162
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,640
You could just see her soul like
leave her body that every time.
1163
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:16,320
In the bar where and he had
known up to owning or to knowing
1164
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,680
that other girl.
Oh, Priyanka, yeah, Oh my God.
1165
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,920
But she she was a real one, too.
I wanted more Priyanka in this
1166
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:23,760
season.
And she was great.
1167
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,360
The way she kind of called him
out for his BS.
1168
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,720
Yeah.
But yeah, like, but you, he
1169
00:52:28,720 --> 00:52:32,240
like, got this look on his face
where you could just be like,
1170
00:52:32,240 --> 00:52:35,080
dude, you are lying through.
Your teeth, you could tell.
1171
00:52:35,240 --> 00:52:37,080
You and the the
uncomfortableness and the
1172
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,480
defensiveness.
The classic narcissist behavior.
1173
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,440
And I'm not, you know, we can't
diagnose him as a narcissist.
1174
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,000
Like, I'm not a mental health
tendency, but that behavior,
1175
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,040
Yeah.
Of like, flipping it around like
1176
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,600
that DARVO and making himself
the victim.
1177
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,880
Yeah.
When he's the one that has done
1178
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,240
something not great.
And by not great, I mean he at a
1179
00:52:56,240 --> 00:53:00,480
minimum has has been lying to
Ashley A. 100% and and the word
1180
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,680
sality stuff.
Too.
1181
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,320
Oh yeah, that's a smokescreen.
At some point you just give up
1182
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,480
because it's just exhausting and
you can't engage with it
1183
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:08,440
anymore.
He.
1184
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:12,440
Was exhausted, exhausting this
whole like continual talking
1185
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,240
about former.
Glory, Oh my God.
1186
00:53:14,240 --> 00:53:18,280
Major Ick I I have met these men
and it's like.
1187
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,640
It could have been the
quarterback, yeah.
1188
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,360
Well, cool, so could I like, you
know what I like?
1189
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,160
Because they're over and
fleeting where they were.
1190
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,480
Yeah.
And when he first told that
1191
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,080
story, I was like, oh, that's
kind of sad.
1192
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,640
And then you realize, oh, it was
over a decade ago.
1193
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:35,120
Yeah.
Right.
1194
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,920
Like kind of time to move on.
Yeah.
1195
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,040
And then he had that moment and
once again, let's, you know, say
1196
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,400
that this wasn't a hot mic.
This wasn't a gotcha.
1197
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,480
Yeah.
Where he decides to shit on two
1198
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,160
of the most famous soccer
players in the world, Right?
1199
00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:50,400
Tim Howard and Sir David
Beckham.
1200
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:52,560
Yeah.
Oh, Beckham's not that good.
1201
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,760
He's not that good.
Why are you fucking kidding me?
1202
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,400
What?
Like you don't have to like the
1203
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,280
dude, but like you cannot say
he's not good, right?
1204
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,440
Like so like literally the whole
world knows it's wrong his name
1205
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,880
because he's just a kind of a
crappy player.
1206
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,520
They're wrong.
They are wrong.
1207
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:09,760
Serious.
They really.
1208
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,320
Should have seen Alex play,
which by the way, isn't even his
1209
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:13,160
real name.
Oh, that's right.
1210
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,960
It's Alec.
And he changed it at some point,
1211
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,640
yes, but, well, whatever.
We don't know why or I don't
1212
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,960
know why, maybe it's out there.
But yeah, that was wild.
1213
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,040
I sent you the clip.
I don't think you've watched it
1214
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,960
yet of Tim Howard and Landon
Donovan, another one of the best
1215
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,640
soccer players in the United
States, on their podcast talking
1216
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,040
about him.
It was so funny.
1217
00:54:33,240 --> 00:54:36,520
It made my heart happy.
And Tim Howard was like, you
1218
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,360
know what?
Just issue an apology on any
1219
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:39,960
platform.
I'll accept it.
1220
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,200
And Landon Donovan was like, you
know what?
1221
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,640
No, he just like rips him a new
one.
1222
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,560
It was amazing.
Amazing.
1223
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,600
The audacity, though, to compare
yourself to people at that
1224
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,160
level.
And compare yourself favorably.
1225
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:57,600
De Lulu Beckham isn't that good?
Are you fucking kidding me?
1226
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,520
Says the Australian currency day
trader who failed to be picked.
1227
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,080
Yeah, homosexual nomad.
Oh my God, he is such a
1228
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,040
homosexual.
I think he was literally
1229
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,560
homeless when they cast him.
For yes yes and I mean the way
1230
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:16,000
he just present I just I have
dated Alex let's just say yes
1231
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:21,800
you have yeah yeah I mean 100%
yeah like oh oh oh and she like
1232
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,760
was yeah I mean annoying but
well we.
1233
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:26,960
Didn't honestly, we didn't
really learn that much about
1234
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,480
Ashley because it was all Alex
talking nonsense, right.
1235
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,000
So like, you know, I I said
like, I don't like her because
1236
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,600
she's like MAGA, whatever.
Yeah, but you know what, Maybe
1237
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:37,760
we don't even know that that
well.
1238
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,920
So we just don't really know
anything about Ashley.
1239
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:43,240
But I I think that was a boss
move at the altar to be like,
1240
00:55:43,240 --> 00:55:46,040
you know what, no, I'm not even
going to let you yes, reject me.
1241
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,600
I'm going to reject you first.
And her little speech was kind
1242
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,440
of word salady as well.
And it went on a little too
1243
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:51,440
long.
But you know what?
1244
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,600
I don't hate the move.
I don't hate the move.
1245
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:59,280
I I mean, also they could have
done that not going to the
1246
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,800
wedding, right?
But they get paid extra to go to
1247
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,560
the wedding.
Well, that's, I mean, if it's,
1248
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:07,000
it's a lucrative move, but and,
and Alex needs it.
1249
00:56:09,240 --> 00:56:12,040
Oh, girl, we are so attuned.
I absolutely fucking love it.
1250
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,160
But yeah, I mean, you maybe
didn't have to do it in the
1251
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,120
States like that.
But you know, I I appreciate
1252
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,280
what she was acknowledging about
her growth.
1253
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,320
I have definitely been there
where a year before she had been
1254
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,040
like, I will accept this
mediocrity totally.
1255
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,760
I will.
And I have right.
1256
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,760
Like where you're like, I will
accept this limp ass excuse for
1257
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,720
a man who is always talking
about his former glory days that
1258
00:56:33,720 --> 00:56:36,880
actually never happened, but
like you know, and carry the
1259
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,840
weight here and just listen to
him talk by himself constantly.
1260
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,200
I did love that she called out
his integrity too.
1261
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:47,040
Yes, and the mom, but I don't.
Care mom is the narc too.
1262
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:51,520
Oh my God 100% like whenever he
called her and he didn't even
1263
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:53,400
know where she was and I was
like wait what?
1264
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,960
I know, right?
Do you guys ever chat?
1265
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:57,520
It doesn't seem like you ever
chat.
1266
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,400
I mean, here's the thing, I
guess, like I want to have some
1267
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,160
sympathy for Alex because he's
clearly damaged by a real shitty
1268
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:06,000
childhood and shitty parents,
you know, or parenting.
1269
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,080
We should say shitty parenting.
Let's call out the behavior, not
1270
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:13,880
the people, but, but still, at
this age, it's a whole choice to
1271
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:15,960
be that big of an asshole.
Yeah, because there are
1272
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,200
therapists available.
You can change.
1273
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,760
There are books.
Exactly.
1274
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:22,000
There are just like trying to be
a basic good human.
1275
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,960
And he was the other one that
made remarks he didn't have to
1276
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,200
make about her not being
attractive.
1277
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:28,760
Which you're like, are you?
You're like me.
1278
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,680
Are you blind?
A goddess, At least physically,
1279
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:32,720
she's so.
Gorgeous.
1280
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:36,160
And again, it's OK to have
preferences, but to frame it
1281
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,120
like that.
Oh my God, his hitting on
1282
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,000
Britney at the resort, do you
remember that?
1283
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,640
Yes, like ultimate disloyal
behaviour.
1284
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,360
I mean that he was dead to me
from that second. 100% like that
1285
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,120
was central, so disgusting, so
gross.
1286
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,800
And also the, well, I'm not
going to have sex with you so
1287
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,040
that you think you're not
enough.
1288
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,160
And honestly, bad behaviour.
I totally get what you say about
1289
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,720
the narcissist.
Like we can't diagnose, but we
1290
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,120
can also acknowledge tendencies.
Yeah, let's visit.
1291
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,240
Narcissistic tendencies tend to
start with a sob story.
1292
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,920
That's a good point.
It's a very documented pattern,
1293
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:12,560
right?
I have had this tragic thing
1294
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,640
happen to me.
Do you feel sorry for me or you
1295
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,920
don't yet?
OK, let me layer it on then and
1296
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:18,640
I'll maybe fake cry too.
Yeah.
1297
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,120
Again.
I have experience in this area,
1298
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,320
and once they've hooked your
heart, yeah, then they start
1299
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,360
shitting on you.
And then you suddenly find out,
1300
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,880
oh, you left a big chunk out of
that story.
1301
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,760
So I'd love to hear how it
really happened with Alex's knee
1302
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,040
surgery because I don't buy any
of that.
1303
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,440
Well, I don't know.
I mean, I'm agnostic on that.
1304
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:40,000
It could be legit.
You know, athletes have a very
1305
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:41,840
tenuous career at the best of
times, right?
1306
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,080
So who knows?
I'd.
1307
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,360
Just be surprised that he was as
glorious as.
1308
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,600
He could, you know, I haven't
looked anything up about it, but
1309
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:48,800
I would love to get some more
tea.
1310
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,160
Me too.
All right.
1311
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,480
Any final thoughts on Alex and
Ashley?
1312
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,200
Thank God you did not get
together, and thank God even
1313
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,000
more you didn't procreate.
Oh, for the sake of that, I
1314
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,600
didn't.
He never procreate I.
1315
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:05,320
Hope so too.
Like just to, I mean, yeah, Mr.
1316
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,960
Homosexual.
I yeah, I just, I don't really
1317
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:10,480
want to even wish him all the
best.
1318
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:11,680
I agree.
Yeah.
1319
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:13,560
You know what love is?
Blind casting people.
1320
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,520
Please do better.
Yeah, I know.
1321
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:19,160
Please cast more people like
Christine and Victoria.
1322
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,360
So let's end with them.
Because these two, I felt like
1323
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,040
they were just sunshine in human
form.
1324
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,440
I loved them both so much.
I love their relationship.
1325
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:28,600
I feel like they're actually
going to last.
1326
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,920
I do, too.
Not since Season 1 Lauren and
1327
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,000
Cameron have we had a couple
this amazing.
1328
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:39,360
I agree and they were just so
like I can't even describe it.
1329
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,680
There was just no tension in any
of.
1330
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,920
It they were so calming like
when both of them spoke I just
1331
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,480
felt my nervous system relax.
I was like, oh you sweeties,
1332
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,240
you're just lovely.
I love you both and.
1333
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,960
It's like you're you just feel
like their home will be calm
1334
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:54,840
their.
Kids.
1335
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,600
Will be loved like I'm making up
a whole life for them.
1336
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,320
No, but I think it's going to
happen, Yeah.
1337
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,440
I think they're going to have a
lovely life together.
1338
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,760
I think they're going to have
beautiful, well adjusted
1339
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,880
children who know that they are
loved by both their parents.
1340
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,320
I think they're going to.
Navigate all of it beautifully.
1341
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,720
I think so too.
And I, I love that, you know,
1342
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,200
they had the difficult
conversations in a really
1343
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:17,440
constructive way on camera,
like.
1344
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:19,880
You did.
The time was raising interracial
1345
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,520
children.
I thought that was beautifully.
1346
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,120
Done.
And her being like, I, you know,
1347
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:28,560
I will never fully know, like,
and it's my children and the way
1348
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:32,120
he responded to her.
Oh my God, so beautiful.
1349
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,760
OK, we'll just send the box.
Well, I assumed it was like, I
1350
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,320
assumed it was lingerie.
Yeah, probably.
1351
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,680
I mean, I don't think it was
like crazy sex toys.
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01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,200
I think it was just some cute
like sexy lingerie for her.
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01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,560
And shout out to him because.
He was very classy about it.
1354
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Extremely classy, yes.
Like the whole season, Yes.
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01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,960
He carried himself with just
perfect grace throughout the
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01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,320
whole season.
Yeah, so did she.
1357
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,720
She did.
Sorry, I totally spoke over you
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01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,720
there.
What were you gonna say about
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them?
The box?
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01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,640
Cuz I had to.
Mention I can't remember.
1361
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,880
I'm so sorry, but they are
lovely.
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They're lovely.
I hope they're so happy
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together.
I I really do too.
1364
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:10,000
And you know, I think they both
have kind of well, they are
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proof, right.
They seem to have had like
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tricky family situations, right.
But they're they're working on
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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,000
it.
They've been open with each
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01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:21,640
other like they are a perfect
example of nobody has to be
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01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:24,440
perfect.
Yes, very few people have what
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01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,040
you would deem the perfect
background.
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01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,560
Nobody's perfect.
Nobody.
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And and yet they're just like,
let us come together the way we
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are and, and just be kind.
Yeah.
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Can they just like teach the the
dating people of the world how
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to do?
It Oh my God, that's what they
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should do.
A full time career.
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Yes, yeah, and yeah.
Once again, anyone casting love
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01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:47,960
is blind.
Who's listening to this?
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01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,760
Look, we love the dumpster fire.
We love to hate on some of these
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01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,720
men, but please make better
choices because we would love to
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01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,000
see at least one Victoria and
Christine every season.
1382
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,560
Yes.
And can we also just mention
1383
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:04,200
like in the the over like
arching theme is this is what I
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01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:10,240
got like beautiful, successful
women for the most part, right?
1385
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:13,600
Like, I mean, a lot of them are
have very good jobs, very well
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01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:19,360
educated, all gorgeous, all
talkative, good personalities.
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01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,480
Arguably Christina Christina
side.
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01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,840
I mean, she we all have
vulnerabilities and and sort of
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01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:27,760
weak points, right?
But she was constructive how she
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01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,960
expressed them.
All the other women under
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01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:31,760
confident.
Yeah, that's right.
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01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,640
All the men.
Way overconfidence.
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01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,480
Like, except for Victoria, who
was appropriately confident,
1394
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,560
right?
Because he, he was just like.
1395
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,560
You know, because he wasn't
cocky, he was just calmly,
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01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:44,880
peacefully confident and he can
back his shit up.
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01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,040
Yes, he's a smart dude and I, I
read up on him like he's worked
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01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:52,400
on all these like different
incarceration projects and like
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01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,600
dude walks the walk, right?
Like in terms of, you know, he's
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01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,920
teaching people by policy now,
but he's actually been involved
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01:02:59,920 --> 01:03:02,640
like in the field work, you
know, on the ground kind of a
1402
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,760
thing.
And yeah, I just, it was such an
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01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,880
interesting thing to see the
under confidence of these
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01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:15,720
amazing humans and the inflated
delusional.
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01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,840
Delusional.
Egos and confidence of these
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01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:22,360
men, and to me it just, it
represented a lot of what we're
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01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,000
seeing societally.
Yep, this tracks with everything
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01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,480
we see on the apps.
Yes, sure does.
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01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:33,600
And the fact that I've never
seen in such numbers so many
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women just go, you know what?
Absolutely.
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01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:39,120
Not yeah, good for them.
Yes, that's what we should all
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01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:43,160
be doing.
Yes, my God, this really was a
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01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:47,320
good series in the way that I
think it was like a perfect
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01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,800
reflection of the world.
Yeah, well, at least we got one
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01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:52,800
out of seven couples.
That was good.
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01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,200
Yay.
All right, friends, we are out
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01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:59,320
of time, so thanks for joining
us for our cute little recap of
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01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,280
Love Is Blind.
We plan to do more recaps of
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01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:03,080
other shows.
If there's something you want,
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01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:04,840
go ahead and drop us a line.
Yeah.
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01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:09,280
If you enjoyed our podcast,
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01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:11,760
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01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:16,160
A little review would be lovely.
So lovely and please leave us a
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01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:17,800
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And a we follow.
1425
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,520
And a we follow yes, that helps
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1426
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:22,680
If you could follow us on the
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would be amazing.
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01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,960
All right, friends.
Hey, stay warm.
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01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,480
Stay salty.
And keep watching reality TV.
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Absolutely.
We'll see you next time.
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Bye.
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Hello, hello, welcome back to an
episode, a special episode of
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The Salty Hose.
My name is.
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Claire and I'm Mel.
And together, I've said it
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already, but let's say it again.
We are the salty hose.
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We haven't said coming at you
deep from behind.
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The oh, we're coming deep from
behind today.
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I tell you what, we have so much
to talk about.
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This is, like Claire said, a
special bonus episode for you
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today.
Special bonus episode about
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people who sadly don't seem to
have been getting come at from
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behind.
Yeah, not really.
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Wanted to.
Sorry.
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Yeah.
So we are going to push this out
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today or tomorrow.
It's going to be hot off the
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press for you before we get
started.
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We're not going to do I think a
normal week check in.
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But you know what?
It's been a week.
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It's been a week.
It's been a week.
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Not not for us, not so much for
us, but for the world.
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Humanity.
Yeah.
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At large.
Yeah.
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And so we just want to
acknowledge, y'all, we know the
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world's on fire.
We know that our government is
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pursuing a war of aggression
completely unjustifiably.
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Yep.
You know, we know that there is
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a genocide going on.
In in several.
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Places.
Well, in several places, yeah,
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that's true.
Multiple genocides.
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Yes, and you know, the salty
hoes are very clear and where we
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stand very clear.
You can look at our Instagram.
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We we made a declaration.
That's right.
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And we stand by that.
We do and we're not, you know,
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some of those bitches that are
like, I don't read the news or
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I'm not political.
We are.
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We are political, yeah.
But this space, this space is
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for frivolity and fun, and we
stand by that as well.
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We do because in, in order for
literal survival, we have to at
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some point switch off,
particularly if you know, for
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our listeners and for ourselves,
if you are engaging regularly
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with some of the things that are
happening and you know, we, we
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all need space.
I say this in my yoga classes
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too, Like it is OK to have a
moment to catch your breath
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because if you can catch your
breath, then you know you can go
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and be attentive to people and
things.
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So we're being frivolous, but
we're not being frivolous
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without conscience.
And we just wanted you all to
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know that.
Yeah, We felt like that was
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maybe an important disclaimer.
Yes.
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All right.
Well, should we get on to the
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frivolity?
Let's get on to the frivolity.
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Yeah, this is Love is Blind.
Love is blind.
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Yeah.
So I have to tell you, I got a
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text from my sister-in-law
almost a week ago and we were
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kind of talking about, you know,
discussing Love is Blind.
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Anyway, but she said podcast
idea.
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Have you heard of the fuckery
that is Chris from Love is
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Blind?
Oh yes, Oh yes.
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And I was like, oh girl, have I
ever?
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Oh my God.
And then she followed it up with
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this text, which I think you're
going to just love, she says in
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the Salty Ho Venn diagram of
toxic masculinity, dating,
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reality TV and sexism.
He basically seems like he is
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the center circle she.
Knows us so well, isn't that
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great?
What a perfectly crafted text.
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Oh my God, that's epic.
Isn't that amazing?
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We should have her on the
podcast sometimes.
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She's a delight.
She.
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Is a pure delight.
Oh my God, yeah, he he really
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is.
Because let's start with the
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fact that he's 5 foot 6.
Oh, yeah.
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Are we just starting with Chris?
Right, well, I just.
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I should we like build up to
Chris.
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I feel like we have a lot to
unpack.
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We have a lot to unpack.
So So yeah, we could start with
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him in the context of let's talk
about the couples who didn't
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even make it to the the
ceremonies.
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OK, great.
Yeah, OK, Well, sure.
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Let's start with Chris.
Oh boy.
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Oh boy.
Indeed.
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Wow.
OK, what do you think?
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What did you think of them as a
couple before he revealed his
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deep douchiness?
Yeah, well, I didn't like
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totally clock that at first.
They seemed like a mismatched
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couple to me at first, right?
There was an age difference.
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There was a success difference,
right there was.
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A big one.
A big one, Mr. Chris.
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Deficit.
Yeah, right.
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I mean, Jessica is what, an
infectious diseases Dr. right?
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She's got a great career.
She's beautiful.
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She's gorgeous, super hot, great
body.
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Yep.
Great conversation.
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Yeah, like, just, I mean, a
motherfucking prized.
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I'm just gonna say it.
Like such a prize.
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She's a prize with a bow on top.
Yes.
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And him.
Yeah, like what?
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A little lump.
Oh my God, I love he was a
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little.
Lump Yeah.
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So when they got engaged, I was
like, well, OK, I guess if it
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makes her happy, sure.
Right.
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Like, girl, she clearly wants to
be with someone.
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I mean, she's not desperate like
our girl Brittany, who we're
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gonna talk about later, but
Brittany now, she seemed like
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she really, really was there for
the right reasons and really
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wanted a relationship.
And I think Chris was able to
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disguise his true nature and say
all the things she wanted to
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hear in the pods.
Definitely I because I didn't
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pick up on it at all.
I just thought that she was
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definitely out of his league.
Same.
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And it was like but OK girlie
like you seem happy.
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He seemed pleasant, like seemed
to say the right things
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personally I believe.
Tell me what you think it was
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the minute he went to her house.
Oh, I think you're right.
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His whole energy shifted.
Yeah, like you could see it on
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his face, like looking at her
home, like the jealousy and the
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like, just what the fuck?
Like because she was so low key
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about it, right?
She wasn't flashy.
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She wasn't showing it off.
She.
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Hello, Mr. Devoe.
Is that Devante Devante?
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Yeah, I, yeah, him where he's
like, yeah, I'm so I'm so
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friggin flashy.
We're going to need a prenup.
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I mean that was not her vibe.
No, not at all.
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And she?
Presented with this like
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gorgeous home and he just turned
into a complete tool after that.
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Yeah, that's right.
Didn't he like walk out and just
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like leave for 40?
8 hours, yes.
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He just like totally disappeared
and then was like what's pardon
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me, what's the big deal?
We don't have to stay in
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constant communication.
I don't have to live in your
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pocket.
Oh my God.
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But he couldn't take it.
He couldn't take.
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It because his shitty ass
police, which I don't even
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remember did they even show it
it was OK yeah it was for each
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like him well.
Below average.
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His cat was cute though.
Oh Chalupa.
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Also great name for a cat.
That is a killer name for a cat.
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Clearly his sister or friend
thought of that ex-girlfriend.
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Yeah, it wasn't him.
I know it wasn't him, but I for
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me, that's when it changed.
Yeah.
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Because he was like, fuck, like,
I would need to really step it
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up to be in the presence of this
woman who actually didn't
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require any.
Like, she loved him.
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She was.
So low key and.
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Sweet in his chunky 5 foot 6
shell.
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Oh dear God.
He's so gross.
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He gives me the ick like so bad
so bad.
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Someone on I think Instagram
maybe or Reddit called him a
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rosacea goblin and that's like
my new favorite phrase for him.
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Oh my.
God, that is everything.
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Right.
That describes him to AT.
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Yeah, he is.
Also, like, I mean, telling this
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woman that he needs someone that
does CrossFit every day or
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Pilates every day or whatever.
I mean, come on, buddy.
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I feel like the rage of every
woman on earth except for Breezy
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at that time.
Breezy.
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Breezy.
Clearly we have opinions about
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her, but like, just like the
rage of that comment.
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Oh my God.
And you know that.
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I mean, Jess is amazing.
She is gorgeous, successful, all
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the things.
But you know that will Burrow a
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hole in her head every single
time she takes her clothes off
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with a partner.
Which is so sad because her body
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is great.
It's amazing, but the way he did
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it was so manipulative.
Disgusting.
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To really like dude was going
for the jugular.
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He was, I mean, it was very
intentionally manipulative and.
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Horrible and I don't even think
he was trying to break up with
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her, I think he was just trying
to re establish his dominance
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because he felt inferior.
Yes, like you said when he saw
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her house. 100% he, but I love
that she didn't take it.
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This was a beautiful thing
overall.
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Not with everybody.
I think of this series where a
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lot of the women were just like
fuck you dude, I I don't want.
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This light that was great.
I love how she just like left
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and he was like shocked when he
was like, oh, I wasn't trying to
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like break up and she's like
well, bye.
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OK, bye bye king.
Little man, Little short king.
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Yes.
Like when they went to the bar
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and he was like, why haven't you
text me?
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And she's like, are you real?
Are you fucking kidding me?
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Yeah, that was great.
What?
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And so major slay on her part.
Yeah, this is the energy we all
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need to bring into relationships
A. 100% and.
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Yeah, no disrespect.
We, we don't.
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We can't tolerate that.
No, like it's just not worth it.
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And you can tell like he got
away with this behavior before
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in previous relationships.
This is like his playbook.
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And he's deeply confused that it
also didn't work, although I'm
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skeptical because Miss Breezy,
she is, I was going to say, an
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attention whore.
Does that mean?
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No, that's accurate.
Because the way she was at the
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bar when he came over, like she
was not a real one.
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She was not a.
Girly, she was like, oh, Chris,
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how you doing?
Like, yeah, and it was
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disrespectful to Connor and also
to him.
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Yeah, extremely.
But that's a whole, that's a
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whole other thing.
Well, we can get into that.
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I mean, I will just say.
One more They didn't make it to
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the.
They didn't either.
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I will say one more thing about
Chris, which is just all of the
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CrossFit and Pilates girlies on
Instagram and TikTok dragging
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him is giving me life right now.
It is giving me life.
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I love it.
It's everything.
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There's that one word.
Like the reformer Pilates
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girlies run and hide.
Yeah, behind the curtains.
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There's a bunch of those.
Several Pilates studios have
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like done copycats of that.
It is amazing.
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Love it, adore it.
Oh, just like the audacity.
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Yes, Like I can't to have half
of the confidence of this.
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Man, Oh my God, he thinks he's a
prize and he thinks he's an
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alpha male.
He's 5 foot 6.
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Which, to be fair, once again,
nothing wrong with being short,
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but when you are presenting like
that and you are criticizing
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other people's bodies, including
the goddess of a woman exactly,
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then you know what?
Fuck you, you've opened yourself
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up to.
It I'm going to shame him for
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five foot six, I'll just own it.
I'll allow it.
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I will because yeah, I'm not a
fan of body shaming.
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But when he has done it to
monumental like in a monumental
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way, dude deserves some back.
Right.
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And also he knew he was on
camera.
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Yeah, this is not a gotcha.
It's not a hot my moment.
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The cameras are right fucking
there in his face.
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And he still said that bullshit
to her.
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That is such a good point
because it's not like she
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recorded it.
Yeah, and like posted it.
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Yeah, he was like.
So deceptive.
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No, he had a fucking big camera
in his face.
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Yep.
And he's like, this is what I
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want the world to know.
Exactly, I'm fine with this.
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He doesn't give a flying fuck.
Claire, like you said 8 times at
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the bar or whatever, he don't
give a flying fuck.
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I don't give a flying fuck.
I don't give a flying.
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It's not working out for you,
buddy.
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You wanna talk about the meal?
Loneliness.
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Epidemic, right?
Like, dude, every woman in
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America hates you.
My God yeah, and the fact this
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is another thing.
Sorry, no, we're moving on.
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But no, that's okay.
That he cloaked it
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retrospectively and being like,
it was hard for him when they
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were being intimate and she was
just like, wait, what?
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Oh, and then saying that she was
bad at sex to Breezy, Yes.
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Are you kidding me?
And the she was going, wait,
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that was not the experience that
was happening.
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That wasn't the experience.
He's just trying to shit on her
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afterwards.
He's he is going for the
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jugular.
And that's where he is so
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manipulative.
Disgusting to to bring it up
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because he wanted to sow seeds
of self diet in her brain.
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Yeah, for literally evermore.
Yep, that motherfucker.
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Like, Oh my God.
Well, and then let's talk about
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Bree though.
Miss Breezy Breezy Miss Pick me
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girl.
Oh my God.
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Horrible.
Ick ick energy for.
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Her.
I cannot believe she entertained
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that conversation with Chris at
all.
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She should have shut that down
and walked away immediately.
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She was just so disrespectful to
Jessica and Connor.
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Yeah, and.
Absolutely.
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They're supposed to be friends.
Yes, with Jessica and she's
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supposed to be engaged to
Connor.
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What?
Wow, if a dude spoke to you like
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that and he came to speak to me,
he would be on the floor with
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like my feet in his face.
There is no way I would even
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tolerate that.
I don't think I would get that
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far in that conversation.
No.
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I'd be like, you know what?
We're all done here.
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Goodbye.
You're fucking gross.
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Get the fuck out of my face.
Sorry.
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I'm very sorry today.
Beep, beep, beep.
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Love.
Love is blind.
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Kind of, you know, stimulates
that.
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I just, I'm filled with like the
rage of legions of women in this
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situation.
Absolutely.
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Oh my God, Bree.
Oh girl.
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We've all known someone like
that.
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I feel like that's oh, I have
your back and then like
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immediately stabs you in it
100%.
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Like, oh, this boy is giving me
attention.
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I'm special.
I like that.
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Attention.
I want both men fawning over me
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because I'm so amazing.
Gross, gross, gross, gross,
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gross.
And just the way she treated
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Connor all season, I was really
not a fan of.
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He's a good boy, he.
Seems like a good guy.
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He seems like a very just decent
human being.
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I mean, maybe he got a great
edit, but he just seemed really
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sweet and really solid.
Like super loving.
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Consistent.
Yeah, his wee dumpster job.
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Yeah, although he has a job.
He has a job, right?
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He has a business.
I didn't love that he called
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himself blue collar.
I mean, it's a blue collar
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industry, Yeah, but it doesn't
strike me that he's out there
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working with his hands every
day.
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Right, he's got to be business.
Mind, you know, whatever.
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That's great.
Yeah.
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You know, good guy.
Like I hated the way she shot on
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his apartment.
His apartment was fine.
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It was clean.
Sure, there was beer in the the
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fridge, but So what?
He's a man living alone, if
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that's you know what I didn't
like about her energy either.
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And her mom was exactly the.
So you could see where she gets
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it a. 100% like they were like
twins.
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The hair, the mannerisms.
I can't stand that when like
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women constantly shit on their
partner.
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I can't either.
All she did was like constantly
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shit on him, onto other people.
Yeah, in front of him.
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Like she brings him to meet her
mom and it's just like, oh, you
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should oh, you should see this.
Oh, and you're just like.
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It's a frat house, and you're
like, free.
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Have you ever been to a frat
house?
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Yeah, That was not a frat house,
girl.
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Not even close.
That was a reasonably clean
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apartment.
You and I have seen much dirtier
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bathrooms.
Oh God, we'll talk about that in
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a different.
Episode.
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Oh my God, yes.
Oh yeah, we've seen much more
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horrific.
Things, yeah, places where
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you're like don't touch any
surface right where's.
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My hand sanitizer.
I think I have all my shots.
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My God.
My God.
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Yeah.
Like dude was kind of winning.
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I'm not.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
And then, like, her whole thing,
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oh, there's a keg outside.
You're like, so the fuck what?
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Right.
I would have a keg if it were
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legal in Utah.
Right.
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Like it's easier and more
environmentally friendly for
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parties.
Are you gonna judge me, Queen?
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Yeah, what the hell?
Well, she probably would judge
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me.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Or or not to your face, she
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would behind your back.
Yeah, definitely right.
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Yeah, I think there's like a
just an X through her.
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She would just was not.
No, thank you for Breezy.
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Not kind to anyone, really.
She wasn't.
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I'm not loyal to her girlies.
And then that breakup scene with
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him.
Oh my God she just like dropped
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it in after work one day.
I mean, it was horrible and like
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the stuff she was saying, like,
oh, I don't know if you would be
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a liability.
That girl.
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Disgusting.
Disgusting.
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Let's talk to you about what a
liability is.
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Yeah, it's sister Bree.
Yes, like you know, for anybody
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that would ever say like we're
men haters, Dick punchers, like
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no, because Bree is exactly
Chris.
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Yes, she was punching Connor
where it hurts totally like
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mocking his ability to provide
and and I just don't know if I
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want like a better life with
more flashy items.
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Like shallow much?
Oh yeah and like getting after
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him because he didn't order her
food in a restaurant.
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Oh my God girl you're a whole
ass adult ordering your own
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food.
But you know that if he had,
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she'd have been like, why are
you controlling me?
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Let me order my own food.
It's a no win situation.
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I just kind of feel like that's
her vibe, I don't know.
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Claire, do you think it's hot
when a man orders for you at a
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restaurant?
In sometimes yes.
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Do you like it?
Sometimes, yeah, it's.
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I can go either way.
It's.
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Not like it's circumstantial.
I feel like I.
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Don't have huge feelings about
it.
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I mean, I would be not very
happy if they ordered something
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I didn't want, but if we had
talked about it and then he'd
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said, oh, I will have this and
she will have this great,
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wonderful love it when a guy
takes charge.
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But also it's it's not a it's
not if they don't do it, I would
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never think twice about.
It right, I wouldn't like text
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you after be like Oh my God,
that date was appalling.
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I had to order my own food.
I had to.
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Say what I wanted to the server.
I what a beta.
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X What a huck.
What a beta.
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Like what?
Oh.
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My God.
Stop it, breezy.
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00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:36,640
Yeah, I mean, like it could be
hot in This might seem
375
00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,600
surprising to to you and our
listeners.
376
00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,360
I feel like sometimes I go to a
restaurant, I have menu
377
00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:44,200
blindness, I call it.
Oh, yeah.
378
00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,480
Like I look and it's just like a
blur of words and I'm like, oh,
379
00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,360
it's bring me something.
So if like a person knew me and
380
00:17:50,360 --> 00:17:52,400
was like, OK, you like this
thing, right?
381
00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:53,880
Yeah, that'd be cute.
But.
382
00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,200
Or maybe narrowed it down to
like two or three choices.
383
00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:58,760
Be like, hey, Claire, I feel
like you would like this or
384
00:17:58,760 --> 00:17:59,920
this.
Yeah, one of those.
385
00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:02,360
Yeah, like a wee helpful nudge
I.
386
00:18:02,360 --> 00:18:05,960
I get what you mean.
I really don't like it when the
387
00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,200
menu is really long.
Yes.
388
00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,960
I'm like, I'm not here to read a
novel, I just want some food.
389
00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:11,840
Give me a few options.
Yeah, I don't really want to
390
00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:14,000
make big choices.
I love I love those places that
391
00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,320
have like 5 things on their
menu.
392
00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:17,600
You're like, perfect, Didn't
Gordon Ramsay say That's the
393
00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,040
mark of a good restaurant?
Oh, I don't remember but that
394
00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,840
sounds like.
Something like a short menu cuz
395
00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,320
he's like, you know, like the
The Cheesecake Factory is the
396
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,440
worst place for food.
It's I'm exhausted.
397
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,880
Like I'm just like just bring
some food.
398
00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,320
It's like a book.
I know.
399
00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,400
Just open it with your eyes
closed and point to something.
400
00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,640
Yes, it's terrible.
Bring me something without meat.
401
00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:40,280
Like yeah, but Arlo, shout out
to Arlo.
402
00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,920
They have like 5 things and they
make jokes too.
403
00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:44,520
I hope you're actually going
there this weekend.
404
00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,360
Oh God, I do too.
OK, let's see when we'll keep
405
00:18:47,360 --> 00:18:48,120
you posted.
Yeah.
406
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:49,400
Other story.
Yeah.
407
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,280
But OK.
So we love Connor.
408
00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:53,280
Bree is a pygmy girl that we
don't like.
409
00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:54,840
Yep.
So we move on.
410
00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:57,560
Is there anything else we have
to say about these two?
411
00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,760
I mean, it's so interesting that
those, well, I guess there was
412
00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,200
three who didn't make it to the
aisle.
413
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:09,280
But like, to me, Jess, Bree,
Chris and Connor are like mirror
414
00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:10,800
images.
But yeah, exactly.
415
00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:13,800
Well, I guess that's what a
mirror is.
416
00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:17,160
I'm like, it's a mirror image
flipped.
417
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,760
Yes.
So they just really are.
418
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,240
Maybe, maybe Jess and Connor
could get together.
419
00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:25,360
I mean, I feel like that would
probably work.
420
00:19:25,360 --> 00:19:26,760
Wouldn't that be cute?
Because he's like.
421
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,400
Caring, good energy.
He would take care of her.
422
00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,800
And he would put her on a
pedestal in a good way.
423
00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:35,200
I feel like he would put any
woman on a pedestal and just
424
00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,440
really treat her right.
I mean, you saw how he treated
425
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,480
Bree even though she was
constantly shitting on him.
426
00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,000
My.
God constantly.
427
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,960
Yeah.
Like, I can see how that
428
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:47,320
absolutely would be exhaustive
to any human, but yeah, she was
429
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,480
just as manipulative with her.
You're not a good provider.
430
00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,800
Oh my God, all those things that
should have been inside thoughts
431
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,080
Like I don't know if like I
meant to be with you or if
432
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:57,760
you're just here to teach me how
to be loved.
433
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,560
Fuck you.
That is not what you say to a
434
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,640
human that you care about.
That is like.
435
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:06,160
At any level.
No, like friend partner, never
436
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:10,120
anyone.
Like you don't talk to humans.
437
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:14,680
Like that is not kind.
No EW EW EW.
438
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,040
Bree and Chris, you're well
suited.
439
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,240
I hope you get together and
destroy each other.
440
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,080
Seriously.
Yeah.
441
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,040
Strong feelings.
I know.
442
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,320
Well, Speaking of strong
feelings, actually, can we
443
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:29,360
acknowledge one more not couple,
but triad that didn't make it to
444
00:20:29,360 --> 00:20:34,480
the Oh God altar?
Remember Kevin with an A Kevon
445
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:39,480
Kevon.
Kevin, Mr. Word Salad and then
446
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,920
so bad the two absolute Queens,
Tyler and Kia that walked out on
447
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:43,560
him.
Weeds.
448
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,640
I have so much respect for the
both of them 100.
449
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,720
Percent like love them.
The way I love the way as well
450
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,560
the show did it look like it
looked like she was being a pick
451
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,400
me girl and kind of shitting on
Tyler.
452
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,160
And then she just walked in.
She's like, yeah, you're a piece
453
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:58,640
of shit.
You you're not ready for
454
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,960
marriage to anybody.
Yeah, go sort yourself out.
455
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,680
Oh, he was.
He was like a limp piece of
456
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,160
lettuce.
Oh, at best, like a wet,
457
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,880
dripping, rotting piece of
lettuce.
458
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,320
It is so like you.
Couldn't give a straight answer
459
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,960
to everything.
It was just like word salad.
460
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,160
Word salad.
I don't want to hurt anyone.
461
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,600
I don't want to make choices.
It's like, well, my man, you.
462
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,840
Got to make some choices.
My brother in Christ, I know you
463
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,440
need to make a decision.
One of these women, or neither
464
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,960
of them?
That's fine too.
465
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,840
Right.
But every time one of them went
466
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,400
in, he.
Was like he changed his mind
467
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,720
I'm.
Going to tell you it's over.
468
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,200
Oh, but wait, you spoke.
I like you.
469
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:41,120
Now you're my favorite.
Oh my God, could you imagine
470
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,680
like the day today with someone
like that?
471
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,880
Oh my God, it would be
atrocious.
472
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,720
Oh, I can't imagine like you
would be.
473
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,440
Putting needles in your
eyeballs.
474
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,640
Every day, all day, every day.
Like dude.
475
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,040
Just.
Yeah, yeah.
476
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,240
So big shout out to Tyler.
Yes, big shout out to Kia.
477
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,080
A way to leave his ass and also
way to not like play into the
478
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,080
producers trying to set up drama
between the two of you.
479
00:22:05,120 --> 00:22:07,960
Yes, good job.
Very good job on that because
480
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,320
they, yeah, there were tense
moments where I was like, Oh no.
481
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,760
It's gonna go down well, cuz I
think production was trying to
482
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,720
make it go down and they
declined yeah to do that so.
483
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,240
Women are smarter.
Than yeah, kudos.
484
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,480
So high five.
Yeah, big shout out.
485
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,520
I love it.
All right.
486
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,760
Well, should we move on to
Brittany and Devante?
487
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,760
I need to breeze before we talk,
all right?
488
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,440
This one, take a deep breath, my
God, take a deep breath.
489
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,800
OK, tell me your thoughts.
Well, I felt pretty sorry for
490
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,560
Brittany because for Brittany,
she seems like a lovely person.
491
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:46,120
Yeah, but she's clearly
desperate to be chosen.
492
00:22:46,120 --> 00:22:47,880
Desperate to get married.
Yep.
493
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,080
Pretty delulu.
Yes.
494
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:55,400
And was basically trying to hold
on to this absolute knob of a
495
00:22:55,600 --> 00:23:01,960
person. 100% Oh my God he is
exhaustive.
496
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,480
Oh he's terrible.
Like I just felt like I needed
497
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,200
to have like a narcoleptic
episode just to escape him
498
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,600
whenever he was talking.
Just like make it stop.
499
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:17,480
Oh my God, make it stop.
Like one of those classic dudes
500
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,840
who you're like, oh, and I mean,
hello, look at Brittany.
501
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,080
She's very beautiful.
She is fucking stunning.
502
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,560
And can we talk about this in a
general pattern?
503
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:31,960
Because both Mr. Alex and Mr.
Devante were like, I mean, she's
504
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,400
not like the typical person.
I don't really like her
505
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,240
features.
I don't really like, you know,
506
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,760
for Alex, I don't really like
blondes and for him I don't
507
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,440
really like dark hair like.
Yeah, and he he said.
508
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,880
And then I think we have some
like, tea that was shared
509
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,880
offline by one of his exes.
He has never dated a woman that
510
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,960
wasn't white before.
And he said that at one point.
511
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,120
Yes, and then?
Bizarre thing to say.
512
00:23:55,120 --> 00:23:56,640
I'm sorry I.
Mean, kind of bizarre.
513
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,960
And then like one of his exes
said on social media that not
514
00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:03,200
only does he only date white
women, but he does not like
515
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,720
black women.
Oh so God, I mean internalized
516
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,600
racism much?
Just.
517
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,400
Oh, that's just gross.
Like, so bad.
518
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,280
Yeah.
And yeah, they they were like
519
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,400
magnetically pulled together by
everything that would be
520
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,920
destructive.
Yeah, that's right.
521
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,640
You know, like of you and I have
talked about Ford like it's OK
522
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,600
to have preferences, but that is
not a preference.
523
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,800
That's like next level weird
shit.
524
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,920
It's pretty weird.
I yeah, I don't like, I don't
525
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:38,000
know, like sure, we all maybe
tend to date certain types, but
526
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,320
like I don't think I've ever
consciously like been like,
527
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,040
well, this specific background,
it's a no or the, you know what
528
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,920
I mean?
Oh yeah, me either.
529
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,480
Like I yeah, I.
Did it a whole like different
530
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:53,680
kinds of it just it's weird.
It's weird, but you know, it's
531
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,800
also OK to want to get married.
I hate how that's streamed.
532
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,240
If you're a woman and you
express a desire, it's like, oh,
533
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,680
you're needy and like crazy.
But she did take it a little far
534
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,000
with buying her own wedding
dress before the season even
535
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,640
started.
That is a.
536
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,640
Little far, it's a little far.
It's somewhere between
537
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:15,160
desperation and like the secret
manifesting shit, yes right.
538
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,800
Like, you know, which I say that
all the time is a joke actually,
539
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:24,680
but you know.
Well, it's also just like, be
540
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,480
here for it.
Sure.
541
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,880
You know what I mean?
Like, because if you're, you've
542
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,920
got everything up ahead, where's
the excitement when you do meet
543
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,360
somebody of like preparing for
that situation, you know?
544
00:25:35,360 --> 00:25:38,720
Yeah, it just seemed like anyone
who gave her the time of day,
545
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,960
she would have latched onto.
Yes, and I just wanted to hug
546
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:46,440
her because like, it was painful
to watch their conversation.
547
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,760
So pain.
It just there's nothing behind
548
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,400
the eyes with him.
Nothing.
549
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,760
He's just sitting there.
Oh yeah, I have to go now.
550
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,240
He has the personality of a
potato like.
551
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,240
That's being kind to.
Potatoes.
552
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,720
Well, that's being mean to
potatoes.
553
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,480
Yeah, Too kind to Devante.
Sorry.
554
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,440
Yes, the other way around.
More coffee.
555
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,480
More coffee.
It would probably be a good
556
00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:09,440
thing to point out this morning
that when I met up with Melissa,
557
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,320
I had one earring in and my
zipper was open and my bag was
558
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,240
open.
So that's that's where my head
559
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,040
is today.
Well I drove to the wrong place
560
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,440
so we are a shit show together
today.
561
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,480
Mornings are hard sometimes,
especially towards the end of
562
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,800
the week, but you know, we, we,
we had lots of thoughts about
563
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,040
this show as well.
So many thoughts.
564
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,760
I don't know many thoughts.
We're gonna be able to even say
565
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,120
them all, but.
Oh my God, I know.
566
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,120
Like.
OK, how much were you dying
567
00:26:33,120 --> 00:26:36,200
inside in that last conversation
where like, they kept flashing
568
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,280
to Brittany and confessional and
she's like, yeah, I know we're
569
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,520
going to get married someday
when he is clearly breaking up
570
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,360
with her.
Like, she will never see him
571
00:26:44,360 --> 00:26:45,280
again.
Yeah.
572
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,440
Accepted the reunion.
He probably blocked her as he
573
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,400
got into his little Honda Civic
and drove away.
574
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,360
Can we talk about the Honda
Civic?
575
00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:54,920
Yeah, for a moment?
Well, I don't know if it was a
576
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,160
Civic.
It was some kind of Honda.
577
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,360
I actually don't think it was a
Civic.
578
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,080
It was along those lines, so of
a very standard sedan.
579
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,880
Amid Honda.
Yeah, yes, like, and nothing
580
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,040
wrong with Hondas.
They're great cars.
581
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,560
They'll run forever.
Love a Honda?
582
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,880
I had a Honda Civic for years
and I have to say I lived in a
583
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,440
neighborhood with some very
steep inclines to get out of it
584
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,800
in the snow and I used to see
trucks sliding down the hill and
585
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,040
I would get up in my Civic.
Absolutely.
586
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,040
So no shade on the Civic.
Great cars.
587
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:27,760
Great cars however, however.
When Mr. Devante was sitting
588
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,760
talking about the prenup.
And let's be clear, what was it
589
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,920
3 or 4 days before the wedding?
He like drops this?
590
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,520
This is a conversation that
should have been had earlier.
591
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,120
Oh yes, and no shade on prenups.
It can be a really good idea and
592
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,200
a lot of situations you should
definitely consider a prenup, at
593
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,360
least see if it applies to your
situation.
594
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,560
But first of all, dropping it
three to four days before the
595
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,960
wedding.
Not a fan of that.
596
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,920
Well, also the way it was framed
because it was like, I really
597
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,440
don't have much faith in this
work.
598
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,600
I.
Know well I mean, but to be fair
599
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,400
we all we all knew that that
wasn't gonna.
600
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,560
Work you could also just say I
don't want to get married to
601
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,360
you.
You could say that you could say
602
00:28:05,360 --> 00:28:09,200
that and and this kind of like
puffing of the chest like I'm
603
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,800
I'm self-made.
I'm like I'm a high.
604
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,880
Roller, I mean I don't know his
situation and I haven't looked
605
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:19,040
it up, but dude looks like he
has like $65 in his bank account
606
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,200
and like a Honda Civic.
Right.
607
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,960
Like I was expecting him to get
into like a, I don't even know,
608
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,560
but not that it just seems so
funny and like she has this
609
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,240
beautiful home and a business
and you know, isn't she like a
610
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,080
nurse as well or something?
I thought she did lashes.
611
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,600
She but I think she's like a
nerd.
612
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,840
Maybe like a aesthetician, Maybe
yeah.
613
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,040
But I just, you know, and she's
got this beautiful home looks
614
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,320
all OK.
And you're just like, like, to
615
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:52,080
me, this series was so good
because it just was like a
616
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,640
picture of dating in 2026.
A. 100.
617
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,640
Percent.
Do you know, like the way he was
618
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,320
just elevating himself so high?
I don't know.
619
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,400
I just think the producers
nailed it with that like visual
620
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,160
of him in his little car.
Like driving off with this
621
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,240
backpack like, well, and to be
fair, let me disclaim this just
622
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:16,560
a little bit because maybe he
has saved up significant assets
623
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,280
and he's driving a Honda because
he's financially smart.
624
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,520
That could absolutely be the
case, of course.
625
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,800
And I support that 100 100%.
Like, you know, we've talked
626
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,160
about, like, guys here in Utah
driving around these big F1
627
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:29,720
fifties that they're in debt
for.
628
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,840
So, like, if that is his
situation.
629
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,160
Sorry, Davonte.
Yeah.
630
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,840
Want that great job.
Yeah.
631
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,200
You know, making smart financial
choices.
632
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,160
I don't know that it is or
isn't.
633
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,720
Yeah, but I just.
I had a visceral reaction to
634
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,400
this man every time he was on my
screen.
635
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,800
It's it was just his like, I
mean, I get that some people can
636
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,840
be introverts.
I can get that some people
637
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,160
struggle with the feelings.
He seems so intentional.
638
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,720
Like I think we've all known
people like this where she's
639
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,960
like oh like cuz you want to
hear that your partner finds you
640
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,640
attractive and that is not
needy.
641
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,040
Yes.
Like that is OK.
642
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,000
Claire, this cuts so deep with
me.
643
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,520
I was so triggered.
I was wow, that was years of
644
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,920
begging for any compliment
whatsoever.
645
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,560
Like please just say I'm pretty
like once a month.
646
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,080
Oh my God.
Right.
647
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,200
Like just something.
That breaks my heart for you.
648
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,120
I'm Brittany.
Like literally breaks my heart
649
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:26,960
because you are a fucking
goddess.
650
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:27,600
Thank you.
No.
651
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,000
But like, I'm not balloons.
I made-up your arts like.
652
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,240
Objectively, like I'm, I'm no
Brittany, but I have had, oh
653
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,880
girl, I have had that
conversation.
654
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,240
Like, can you please just
occasionally compliment me?
655
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,640
I just really need it.
And Devante's response was well
656
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,800
now I don't want to because you
asked for it, so fuck you.
657
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,520
I mean are are you?
Five I know exactly.
658
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,280
Are you 5?
That literally is reminiscent of
659
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,200
me.
Like, you know when you get when
660
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,440
your kid gets to the toddler
stage and they like will throw
661
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,160
something and you're like, you
need to pick that up and they're
662
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,280
like, no.
I'm not going to do it.
663
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,000
It's like when they're testing
the boundaries and you, you like
664
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,920
have a standoff with them and
you're like, we're going to
665
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,080
stand here.
Like that's how he acted.
666
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,640
A. 100% how hard is it to just
go Oh my love, you are fucking
667
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,600
gorgeous, you are a goddess.
That's it.
668
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,760
You're beautiful.
I'm sorry I didn't say that more
669
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,960
often before.
Yes, it's not hard.
670
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,760
And also what was the pattern
with him and other dudes like?
671
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,840
It felt like withholding sex.
Oh, I know.
672
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,560
Again, to like, make them diet
themselves.
673
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,640
I know every time you're like,
I'm sorry you're not into her.
674
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:33,960
What?
Excuse me?
675
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,000
What?
And that that part where he was
676
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,640
like, I need to leave for a
whole day?
677
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,080
Yeah, you're not.
Talking to you.
678
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,400
Oh my God, like if I ever got
married again, that is not the
679
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,200
energy I would want going into
my wedding.
680
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,000
No.
And that's where I wanted to
681
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,080
wrap Brittany in a blanket and
be like, girl, honey, is this
682
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,960
really your dream?
Yeah, let's have a little come
683
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,040
to Jesus is.
This really your dream where
684
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,600
you're literally you're in pain,
you're looking at him going Oh
685
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,040
well, I guess that's just you
like I told the girls when we
686
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,320
were trying on the dresses like
he'll just never be that way.
687
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,360
You are alike to pick yes as
well.
688
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,920
Pick a different man.
Pick a different.
689
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,720
Man.
Throw the whole man away.
690
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,080
Throw the whole.
Find a different.
691
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,640
One and did you notice too,
bless her, her we percentage
692
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,240
just kept going down like she
was like I'm 100% sure and then
693
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:27,680
she was like I'm like 90%
Brittany girl, please, just like
694
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,240
you know, talk to some of these
other Queens, talk to Jessica.
695
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,960
Talk to Amber, she'll set you
straight.
696
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,080
And then she will go punch him.
Yeah, which she is a a fucking
697
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:37,840
queen.
Oh my God.
698
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,000
Team Amber all the way, Yes.
So we talk about them.
699
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,840
Oh, I think we should because I
just she is a real. 1 I loved
700
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,880
her.
That night at the bar, she's
701
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:55,000
Sean. 100% she's the only person
in that whole cast that we saw
702
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,960
anyway on camera.
Tell Chris off.
703
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,320
From the men and the women.
Yeah, that's right.
704
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,880
The only one that like stood by
her word.
705
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,960
Yeah, the men didn't have a
problem with Chris until he
706
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,920
disrespected Connor, right it.
Was a disrespecting.
707
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,640
Jess, it was Connor.
Then they're like, OK, well,
708
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,840
Bros before Hose.
He's dead to us now.
709
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:16,840
That's your girl.
He's.
710
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,000
Like hitting on your fiance?
Yeah.
711
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,640
Dude, step it up.
I know.
712
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,960
Come on, men.
Because, you know what, if a man
713
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,200
was to turn right and say to
another man you're an asshole,
714
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,600
you treated her like shit, we
all know that would be way more
715
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:31,720
impactful.
Yeah.
716
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,680
To a man because he will just
categorize Amber as a psycho
717
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,360
now, right?
You know?
718
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,480
But I, you know what?
I loved to bite her.
719
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,800
Like, she's interesting.
She's like, Ding, Ding, Ding.
720
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,320
There's something there.
She's a lot.
721
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,840
Yeah.
But in a good way.
722
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,600
But in a good like, because
she's kind, consistent.
723
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,280
She's consistent, really a
lovely person and.
724
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:57,280
Clearly a great mother.
Oh, an amazing mother like you
725
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:58,760
can see that.
You can see that from the way
726
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,440
her child just interacts with
her and showed it to the single
727
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,720
moms.
And but that part where it was
728
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,960
like like, I've never heard her
be elevated or sweary.
729
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,880
And I loved when they were in
the bar and she just like got
730
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:17,080
this voice on and she was like
God, narcissistic fuck like I
731
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:19,360
was.
So angry on justice behalf.
732
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,120
I loved it.
It was a beautiful sight.
733
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,360
That's a girl's girl right
there.
734
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,600
Like I was up by to my chair.
Yeah, me too.
735
00:34:25,639 --> 00:34:28,600
Just being like you are a queen.
Humping my fist.
736
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,719
And when he came up and he was
like, you don't like me?
737
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,840
And she's just like, no.
Like she just stared at him like
738
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,639
he was a piece of shit.
I know.
739
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,320
And then her comment like oh,
like you're you think you're
740
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,760
gonna find another hot doctor
flipped her hair and walked away
741
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:42,880
from him.
It was perfect.
742
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,679
Amazing.
Oh my God. 10 out of 10 No.
743
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:47,880
No. 10 out of 10 Amber, you are
a queen.
744
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,840
You're a queen.
We love goddess, we love you.
745
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,639
You were.
You were the only real one,
746
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,199
because hello Miss Breezy
twirling her hair.
747
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,040
Chris.
Oh, yeah.
748
00:34:56,199 --> 00:34:57,800
Oh, she wasn't going to bed.
I am.
749
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:02,360
Oh my God, yeah girl, you did
not shine in that.
750
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:03,560
Moment.
No, but Amber did.
751
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:09,440
Amber is a Merrick star.
Yeah, that's an inside joke from
752
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,440
us.
Yep.
753
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,680
Anyway, she burned brightly.
She burned brightly.
754
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,320
We'll say that.
Well, let's talk about Jordan.
755
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,880
Yeah, that was an interesting 1
for me.
756
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,440
He is, he is interesting.
Tell me your thoughts on him.
757
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,120
Well, I mean, at first in the
pods, I was like, well, I kind
758
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,880
of like him.
He seems very affable.
759
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,080
He seems kind.
He's constantly feeding people,
760
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,680
which I think is kind of
adorable.
761
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:30,640
It was very.
Cute.
762
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,120
I mean, it was kind of humorous
to watch him eating all the
763
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,960
time, like shoving tacos in his
face.
764
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,320
Well, she's like getting deep
and like, you don't know how
765
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,800
much is the editing or whatever,
but it was hilarious.
766
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,640
Or like, you know, in the
kitchen, like scarfing down that
767
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,000
pizza.
Hilarious, but you know, he
768
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,640
seemed like a pretty nice,
affable guy.
769
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,040
Just like a good guy.
That being said, I don't think
770
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,440
he was mature enough for Amber.
I don't think he was ready to
771
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,680
settle down.
Yes.
772
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,800
And I just think in that way
they were mismatched.
773
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,240
So as as nice as he seemed to
be, Yeah.
774
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,280
I mean, I'm sorry, but that's
another like, you know, grow up,
775
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,920
men, it's time to grow up.
It's you're in your 30s and
776
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,560
you're potentially considering
getting married to a single mom.
777
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,800
Yes.
And you want to relocate her to
778
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,320
a place where she would have to
drive an hour every day so you
779
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,560
can be closer to bars?
Excuse me?
780
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,280
Like what in the actual fuck?
Grow the fuck up.
781
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:26,680
Yeah, that part really annoyed
me.
782
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,760
And it was funny because I was
watching it with my son.
783
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,160
My son is 24 years old, so it
would like he's not a wee child,
784
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,080
but it was funny because we were
watching it and my son is a
785
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,360
musician.
So he goes out regularly,
786
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,520
probably more than most to shows
like both performing and just
787
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,560
going to because you support the
scene, right?
788
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:48,280
Of course.
And he just said, mom, how many
789
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,320
concerts is this guy going to
like?
790
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,640
Because he kept going on about
you can't get concerts on mine,
791
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,720
Vernon.
And it's like, how many concerts
792
00:36:56,720 --> 00:37:00,160
are you going to like?
I like to go to concerts.
793
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,600
I can't even remember the last
concert I went to.
794
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,240
It was probably like a year ago.
I don't know, right.
795
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,960
Like it's not like dude really
that is worth the tree it off
796
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,040
tree it off of having this
working single mother.
797
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,040
Relocate herself, drive and her
child.
798
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,640
And can we talk about the
winters they would potentially
799
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,280
have, Yeah, a commuting an R
each way.
800
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,800
Right.
And like what happens to her
801
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,680
school?
Like I think they were probably
802
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,520
there for the schools at least
partially.
803
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,440
Like what the consistency?
Like could you maybe say, oh,
804
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,720
we'll stay here till she's done
with elementary school?
805
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,600
Yeah, something that's a
compromise, dude, when you're a
806
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,680
grown up and there's a child
involved.
807
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,400
Right, but he's not a grown up
is the problem.
808
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,720
Like, as sweet as he is, he's
not a grown up.
809
00:37:42,720 --> 00:37:45,680
I mean, you saw his fridge with
rotting food in it.
810
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,120
Oh yes, And again, it's like you
didn't have to go out of town
811
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,760
for an emergency.
You knew you were gonna be gone
812
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,720
planning and you didn't bother
to throw that nasty ass food out
813
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:57,960
of your fridge.
Yes, like do you know that fresh
814
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,600
vegetables go off?
Like yeah, after.
815
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,320
A couple of days.
Is gonna go off.
816
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,240
Never mind like 6 weeks Sir.
You could tell that Connor
817
00:38:05,240 --> 00:38:07,040
cleaned out his fridge right
before, right?
818
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,560
Because the Tupperware was still
drying.
819
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,080
Like, you know, OK, we didn't
quite put it away, but we did
820
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,000
throw away the nasty food.
And we did wash.
821
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,720
It and we did wash it.
That's, Yeah, that's that's
822
00:38:15,720 --> 00:38:16,440
fair.
Yes.
823
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,800
Oh, my God, Adult to me, Jordan
would be the kind of guy that
824
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,880
you would come home after a
really long day and he had been
825
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,000
off all day.
Yeah.
826
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,640
And the house would be a mess.
And he would be in the basement
827
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,800
in one of those chairs that give
me the, the, like, video game
828
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,560
chairs.
It's not bad with his headphones
829
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,880
on playing video games.
And then he'd.
830
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:37,320
Be like oh, what should we do
for dinner?
831
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,640
What's for dinner?
Yeah are we going to flock
832
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:41,280
later?
Let's.
833
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,960
Order a pizza?
Yeah, you know.
834
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,640
Like, dude, I know you're a nice
guy, but like, grow up.
835
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:47,720
Step it.
Step it up.
836
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,720
Grow up.
Yes.
837
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,560
Like, yeah.
Yeah, we don't hate you, but
838
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,360
like.
We don't just grow up, but come
839
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,840
up to Amber's level.
Yeah, Just like a little bit.
840
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,840
And she had this beautiful, cute
little home and again, as well
841
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:02,320
decorated, yeah.
She did all the work herself.
842
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,160
Well, which was amazing.
And also, if you were going to
843
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,120
come in as a stepparent figure,
like, guess who needs to be
844
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,920
first?
The kiddo, the.
845
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,440
Kid, especially when you're
what, like 7?
846
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,600
Yeah.
And her wee bedroom and her wee
847
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,080
heist that she's had her whole
like dude.
848
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,800
Yeah, you're gonna move her.
Cuz you want to go to the
849
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,480
concerts.
Far more often like and if it's
850
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,320
not for you, that's fine, but
then don't get engaged to her.
851
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,280
Exactly.
Yeah, it's like it made me think
852
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,320
of Jerry Maguire.
I haven't seen that movie in so
853
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,440
long.
It's a classic.
854
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,240
It is and I've seen it, it's
just probably not since it came
855
00:39:38,240 --> 00:39:39,160
out.
It's so good.
856
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,080
Where?
He talks about like where if
857
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,560
you're going for the single mom
like you, you got to respect
858
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:45,680
that.
You have to.
859
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,120
And again, we all have choices
you don't have to do.
860
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:49,760
That exactly.
You don't have to date a single
861
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,440
mom.
Yeah, you know.
862
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,000
He could have been like, oh, you
have a kid?
863
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,560
Oh, sorry.
Like, I think you're amazing,
864
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,960
but I'm just not ready to do
that well.
865
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,280
And remember, he said that that
was going to be a deal breaker
866
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,920
for him.
And then he changed his mind,
867
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,120
which is not good, not a good
idea.
868
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,960
Should have stuck with that.
Because again, it is OK to have
869
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,080
preferences.
Totally.
870
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:10,160
Personally I just my hard rule
right now is I I will not date
871
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,160
you if your kid is not in high
school.
872
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,680
Yeah, I think that makes sense
for our time of life, 100%.
873
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:16,960
You don't want to raise more
babies.
874
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,800
You do not want to.
And I have had not one but two
875
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:24,200
experiences in my past dating
life of that where I have been
876
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,360
like, oh, I don't really want to
go down that road, but oh, I
877
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:27,480
like you.
I'll go down that road.
878
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,400
And it doesn't end well.
It doesn't work out.
879
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,560
It doesn't work out.
Yeah, especially if you have men
880
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,400
that aren't demonstrative.
But that's a whole other story.
881
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,120
But you are allowed to choose.
Like I matched with this lovely
882
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,080
guy not that long ago.
We were about to go on a date.
883
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,760
He mentioned kids.
I didn't even think it would be
884
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,400
pot.
He was like 57 years old.
885
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,120
And he's like, I have a 7 year
old.
886
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,240
Oh dude.
And I was like, OK, can I be
887
00:40:53,240 --> 00:40:55,800
honest?
Do you know how to operate a
888
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,200
condom right?
There's a thing called a
889
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,640
vasectomy.
Yeah, get that done right.
890
00:41:00,720 --> 00:41:03,160
Not that big of a deal.
Yeah, and it was just like, I,
891
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:04,880
I'm sorry, like I can't, you
know?
892
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,920
So Jordan, you could have said I
love the idea of fatherhood, but
893
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:11,840
I don't think I'm ready.
I'm not ready.
894
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,280
Yep.
So you know what, Jordan?
895
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,040
We wish you well, but please
grow up a little bit.
896
00:41:15,240 --> 00:41:17,200
And also don't fuck up Amber and
her kid in the.
897
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,280
Process.
Yeah, that's right.
898
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,400
That's not OK.
Stay away from Amber.
899
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,840
She's too good for you.
She really is.
900
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,240
But by the way, can we just talk
about the fact that the kid was
901
00:41:24,240 --> 00:41:25,480
at the wedding?
How did you feel about?
902
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,120
I didn't like that.
I didn't like the kid being on
903
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,560
camera.
And actually it was right after
904
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,560
I said I was like, oh, I'm so
glad she chose not to have the
905
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,200
kid on camera.
And then like there she was.
906
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,720
I was like God damn it.
Oh my God, that is hilarious
907
00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:36,600
because we did not watch this
together.
908
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,200
No.
And when it was like the point
909
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,880
right before and I said oh,
they're not bringing the kid to
910
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,240
the wedding.
I really respect.
911
00:41:43,240 --> 00:41:46,240
That we had exactly the same.
She appeared.
912
00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:50,080
We're like, Oh no, because like.
That part broke my heart.
913
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,520
Like where they were walking
night after getting married.
914
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,600
The kid was sobbing like did you
notice?
915
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,840
That did, yeah.
She was standing sobbing.
916
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,800
Yeah.
And I, it was hard to tell why,
917
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,000
whether she was sad or happy or
over stimulated or like what was
918
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,200
happening could be anything.
Yeah, but she was just there
919
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,440
alone.
Like there wasn't a family
920
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,320
member or a friend like holding
this child.
921
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,840
Like that child needed to be
held.
922
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,200
She needed some comfort.
It really broke my heart because
923
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,400
you're just like, Oh my God.
Like, obviously she was probably
924
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,760
like, I don't understand.
Yeah, my mom is on the TV show
925
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,640
Getting Married to a Stranger.
I know none of this makes sense.
926
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,920
What I'm 7?
Well, and also I really hated
927
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,640
that, Amber said.
I do.
928
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,840
But like I totally get if you
don't do like that part in the
929
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,000
ceremony it.
Felt to me, and I'm just like, I
930
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,360
don't know, making this up
maybe.
931
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,680
It felt to me like the two of
them had agreed off camera they
932
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:37,840
weren't going to go through with
it.
933
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,000
And then she kind of flipped
right at the end and then he was
934
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,600
like, oh shit, well I better say
yes then.
935
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,720
Yeah, well, and you could see it
on his face because I really
936
00:42:44,720 --> 00:42:47,000
think it was true where he said
to sister, I really don't know
937
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,920
what to do.
Yeah.
938
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,240
And she was great.
She was like, just follow your
939
00:42:50,240 --> 00:42:50,760
heart.
Yeah.
940
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,440
And you could kind of see it on
his face when he's sorry, where
941
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,600
he was like, OK, yeah, this
woman's a big prize.
942
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,920
She is a big something.
But like, yeah, it was bizarre.
943
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,320
Yeah.
I would never want to marry a
944
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,920
person where I would have to say
it's OK if you say no.
945
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,640
Oh my God no.
It better be a hell yes.
946
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,760
Right.
And like I will admit, it has
947
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,280
taken me a while to get there.
Yeah, that's it's a lot of
948
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:17,720
therapy for both of us, that's
true.
949
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,000
And at one point, I may have
been Amber.
950
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,280
Yeah.
Even Brittany.
951
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,400
Well, no, I don't know.
You were never Brittany but
952
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,680
Amber.
Like, you know, but like,
953
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,840
viscerally.
Fuck no.
954
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,000
Fuck no.
No, like girlies, you don't have
955
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,600
to.
Do this.
956
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,680
You don't have to do this.
We make our own money.
957
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,440
Yeah.
You all own your own homes.
958
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,200
Exactly.
You're.
959
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,840
Fine, you're way ahead of these
men.
960
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,040
Well, Speaking of deal Breakers
that should have killed a
961
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,960
relationship before it ever got
to the altar, what about Emma
962
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,040
and Mike?
Oh my goodness.
963
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,240
OK, Wow.
Yeah.
964
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:56,280
I mean, that was an interesting
edit because basically we at the
965
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,880
end of the show, I feel like I
know nothing about Mike other
966
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:00,840
than his family is Italian and
he wants kids.
967
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,040
Yeah, that's literally the only
thing I know about Mike.
968
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,680
There was no substance.
Yeah.
969
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,400
Yeah.
That he really wants kids.
970
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:07,600
It's a deal breaker.
Yeah, that's all.
971
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,040
That's it.
And it's a deal breaker.
972
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,160
But yet he got engaged to a
woman who does not want
973
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,760
children.
It's like, wait, what?
974
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,040
What is happening?
What is happening?
975
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,360
Well, but like equally.
OK.
976
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,400
Can we just for a minute talk
about Emmas sister?
977
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,920
Let's do it.
That was.
978
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,840
An intervention needs to happen
there.
979
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,360
Girl is not okay.
No.
980
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,320
Like where she was like she's
drowning.
981
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,920
Fucking hate kids don't have
them.
982
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,440
And then these two beautiful
angelic children.
983
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,200
And again, I was watching it
with my son.
984
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,960
My son is a great kid, which I
know your kid is too.
985
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:41,200
They will sit and watch all
these.
986
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,520
Shows I know my son was so
engaged it was.
987
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:49,080
Yes, and he was just like, mom,
these children are beautiful and
988
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,600
he's like, they're so
intelligent.
989
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,640
Like look, they are amazing
children.
990
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,200
What?
Why is this woman so
991
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,680
dissatisfied?
And like I know that it's
992
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,640
probably because she probably
has a baby man and gets no help.
993
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,080
I'm making assumptions, but.
I think that's probably a fair
994
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:04,560
assumption.
There could be a whole slew,
995
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,920
like postpartum stuff, like
that's true.
996
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,800
My heart aches for her one level
and then the other one is like,
997
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,280
well, hello, Emma's parents,
let's talk about them too.
998
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,120
Like do you see the things your
child is saying?
999
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,960
Yeah, we're oblivious.
And she was like a therapist or
1000
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,600
something.
They were living in La La land
1001
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,000
to the parents.
My God.
1002
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,800
Yeah.
But I mean, when the sister said
1003
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,160
that when she's like, well, I
don't necessarily regret having
1004
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,720
kids, but if I could do it
again, I wouldn't have them.
1005
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,440
I actually paused the television
cuz my son was like, he was like
1006
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,480
kind of a gas and I paused it
and I was like, I was like, I
1007
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,040
cannot believe she said that on
camera.
1008
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,480
And I was like, my love, my
baby.
1009
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,600
Yes, in every lifetime I would
choose you.
1010
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,680
Every lifetime, yes.
And that's true.
1011
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,160
That's making me like, cry,
right?
1012
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,720
I know like we had a little
moment.
1013
00:45:48,720 --> 00:45:50,680
I'm like that.
Those words would never come out
1014
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:51,920
of my mouth.
Never.
1015
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:56,880
Yes, and like, because let's
just acknowledge raising
1016
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,400
children is not for the faint of
heart it.
1017
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,760
Can be hard.
It is very hard and especially
1018
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,320
when they are little and like
even when we go to coffee shops
1019
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,320
and I see moms with like little
children, I'm like, hi on God's
1020
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:08,480
green earth.
Did I ever do that?
1021
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,120
Like I don't.
Well, you have three of them.
1022
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,440
I only had one, but but it's
hard, right?
1023
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,840
It can be hard.
But never like.
1024
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,640
And I'm not throwing shade on
her.
1025
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,280
I do think that the woman is in
need of help.
1026
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,000
She needs some help.
Because like postpartum is very
1027
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,640
real and can go not just when
the baby's born, but four years
1028
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:25,560
for.
A long time, yeah.
1029
00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:28,760
And I just like, I feel bad that
she's clearly in the dark spot
1030
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,320
and everybody is kind of
ignoring it.
1031
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,320
Yeah, especially Emma's parents.
Yes, Oh my God, oblivious.
1032
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:35,560
Well.
Because they were oblivious to
1033
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,480
Emma.
Yeah, like saying, oh, we didn't
1034
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,400
realize you were struggling in
middle school.
1035
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:44,440
My, my dudes, I know.
Are you kidding me right now?
1036
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,200
Like also she's a therapist,
it's their youngest kids, so
1037
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,880
they got some experience in the
bank.
1038
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,400
Like, I'm not saying that
because like, you know, my, I
1039
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:59,080
have made not the great parental
like behaviours or choices, you
1040
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:03,040
know, that's universal, but you
know, you're like.
1041
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,280
You've had some experience
already, right?
1042
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,640
And you adopted this child.
And you're a therapist, you work
1043
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,880
in this therapeutic space.
And also, I would assume you're
1044
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,640
aware of some of the, you know,
just different styles of
1045
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,320
parenting if you are fostering
children or adopting them,
1046
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,040
right?
Like, and I like, I had foster
1047
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,840
kids.
It's a different approach,
1048
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,720
right?
Because it has to be Yeah.
1049
00:47:25,720 --> 00:47:27,800
And for them, just be like, oh,
we had no idea.
1050
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:29,680
Right.
And I'm also a little confused,
1051
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,960
like, did you not look up one
thing about adopting a child not
1052
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:34,520
of your race?
And I'm not saying you shouldn't
1053
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,840
do that, but I'm saying maybe
you should have educated
1054
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,360
yourself a little bit more about
some challenges they would face.
1055
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,440
Like a little bit of informed,
yeah, that just was.
1056
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:44,200
A dumpster fire.
Bizarre.
1057
00:47:44,240 --> 00:47:47,360
Yeah, really bizarre.
And so why did her mother wear a
1058
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,600
wedding dress to her wedding?
Did you see that?
1059
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,920
Like, it wasn't quite white, but
it was, like, all blinged out
1060
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,840
and, like, close to white.
Did she have like a weird like
1061
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,040
Mormon modesty layering?
Situation.
1062
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,360
Too.
It was just a high neckline.
1063
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,600
Yeah, because what, what am I
thinking of?
1064
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,000
Sorry, my friends going
somewhere else.
1065
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:10,360
But they what surprised me about
them is, I don't know, she was
1066
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:15,560
just like, OK, yeah, I don't
think she really wanted to marry
1067
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,360
him.
No, I don't think so either.
1068
00:48:17,720 --> 00:48:20,880
And you could see that even in
the pods like where she was just
1069
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,320
like.
Well, he was the second choice,
1070
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,080
right?
And Connor said no to her.
1071
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,640
And so then she went from back.
Yeah.
1072
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,240
And all of a sudden was
enamored.
1073
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:30,440
Yeah, that just was weird to me.
Yeah, that was weird.
1074
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,480
I hope.
I mean, Emma seems like a really
1075
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:37,080
lovely person and she might have
some therapy to do, but she.
1076
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,800
I mean, don't we?
All right, of course.
1077
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,080
But she seems lovely and I hope
she finds someone better than
1078
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:42,480
Mike.
Mike is just.
1079
00:48:43,240 --> 00:48:45,480
Blah.
Well, yeah, like we don't know
1080
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,240
anything about him.
Can't really comment on Mike
1081
00:48:47,240 --> 00:48:48,800
because we know.
What's your favorite color?
1082
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,040
Yeah, no idea.
Like what?
1083
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,880
Yeah, yeah.
Just a wee bit lackluster there.
1084
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,400
Yeah.
I did see this funny reel that
1085
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,120
was sort of indicative of the
whole series.
1086
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:01,160
It was hilarious where it would
show the men and they were just
1087
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,800
like, you know, the girl would
be like, what's your favorite
1088
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,200
color?
And they go blue and, like, not
1089
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:10,240
a not ask it back.
And she'd go, Oh my God, I'm in
1090
00:49:10,240 --> 00:49:13,120
love with you.
I was like, I feel like that
1091
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:14,160
was.
Kind of in these.
1092
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,480
Couples tickative of most of
them.
1093
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,840
Brittany and Emma.
Yeah.
1094
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,480
Yeah.
All right.
1095
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,960
Well, should we move on to our
friends Alex and Ashley?
1096
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,040
Oh my God what a shit show that
was.
1097
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,280
My God.
I mean, there could be a whole
1098
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,720
episode on them.
Can I just point out the first
1099
00:49:32,720 --> 00:49:35,080
thing that struck me?
I mean, there's a list with him.
1100
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,160
Oh my God, what a disaster that
man is.
1101
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,400
Did he even wash for the
wedding?
1102
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,200
No, he didn't.
So there were crumbs in his
1103
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,160
beard, there was dandruff on his
suit, there was lint on his
1104
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,200
suit.
His suit jacket didn't fit like
1105
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,120
his suit.
It wasn't tailored at all.
1106
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,880
It was huge.
Yeah, he wasn't wearing white
1107
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,440
socks with his black shoes and
black pants.
1108
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,920
Like, what are we?
What are we?
1109
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,880
I mean, he didn't shave.
No, he didn't trim his beard.
1110
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,760
It was so when you see how
groomed he was earlier in the
1111
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,360
season and the way he showed up,
he hadn't even done his hair.
1112
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,600
His hair looked like it hadn't
been washed in four days.
1113
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,280
I don't think I.
Had the beard hadn't been
1114
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,880
trimmed and that was my first
thought was like you are showing
1115
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,640
up to a wedding looking like you
just rolled out of breath
1116
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,200
breath.
Bed.
1117
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,320
My brain was going to.
He didn't even look like he
1118
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:20,920
brushed.
I mean.
1119
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,160
Oh yeah, I don't think he did.
Yeah, he probably did.
1120
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,040
Was like breath.
But shitty pants?
1121
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:27,880
Jesus.
Yeah, I can't get the words.
1122
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,880
Of that he looked unkempt yeah,
extremely.
1123
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,520
And so you could tell,
obviously, he wasn't getting
1124
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,960
married that day, but you're
like, just for your own
1125
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,320
self-image, wouldn't you want
to, like, look a little more
1126
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:38,320
presentable?
Yes.
1127
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,400
Just weird.
Even go out of an average day.
1128
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,560
Yeah.
But also can we talk about that
1129
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,640
because before he went in, can
we kind time many times this man
1130
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,840
was like, I am confident.
Oh God, he said it like 800
1131
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:51,600
million times.
And you're like, what are you
1132
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,040
confident about?
Also, my dude, like, no you're
1133
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,080
not.
Yeah.
1134
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,880
I.
Know Mr. Australian currency day
1135
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,560
trader like.
God.
1136
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,440
What the hell?
Day trading.
1137
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,000
Come on, that's just buddy.
Oh my God, like he.
1138
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,440
But I feel like if she had a
said yes, he would have just
1139
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,440
said yes.
No, I don't think so.
1140
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,600
I think he would have taken his
chance to humiliate her.
1141
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,360
Yeah.
He didn't even like her.
1142
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,520
He had contempt for her attempt.
Yeah.
1143
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,120
From the minute he met her,
yeah, like it.
1144
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,720
It just was gross.
So yeah.
1145
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,040
Oh yeah.
Oh, this?
1146
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,000
Oh well.
What did you think of her
1147
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,680
approach though?
Did you see that coming?
1148
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,720
I didn't see that coming.
You know what, I actually liked
1149
00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:37,360
it.
It was a Dick move, but I think
1150
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,000
that in this case it was
justified.
1151
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,560
And you know, I'm not really an
Ashley fan cuz like her whole
1152
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,280
MAGA thing like going on right
like liking him cuz they're
1153
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,040
aligned on politics.
You're like, oh, I don't like
1154
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,280
that we're.
Moving to Florida.
1155
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,360
Yeah, yeah.
So I don't know that she was my
1156
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:55,040
favorite, but it was sad to see
like just her die inside every
1157
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,160
time he like started talking his
like word salad, compulsive
1158
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,040
lying monologues right about
soccer and day trading in
1159
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,320
Florida and Arizona and
Australia and the travel nurse
1160
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,040
he used to date but maybe still
hooks up with.
1161
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,080
And it like it just never
stopped and like never stopped.
1162
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,640
You could just see her soul like
leave her body that every time.
1163
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:16,320
In the bar where and he had
known up to owning or to knowing
1164
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,680
that other girl.
Oh, Priyanka, yeah, Oh my God.
1165
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,920
But she she was a real one, too.
I wanted more Priyanka in this
1166
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:23,760
season.
And she was great.
1167
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,360
The way she kind of called him
out for his BS.
1168
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,720
Yeah.
But yeah, like, but you, he
1169
00:52:28,720 --> 00:52:32,240
like, got this look on his face
where you could just be like,
1170
00:52:32,240 --> 00:52:35,080
dude, you are lying through.
Your teeth, you could tell.
1171
00:52:35,240 --> 00:52:37,080
You and the the
uncomfortableness and the
1172
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,480
defensiveness.
The classic narcissist behavior.
1173
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,440
And I'm not, you know, we can't
diagnose him as a narcissist.
1174
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,000
Like, I'm not a mental health
tendency, but that behavior,
1175
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,040
Yeah.
Of like, flipping it around like
1176
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,600
that DARVO and making himself
the victim.
1177
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,880
Yeah.
When he's the one that has done
1178
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,240
something not great.
And by not great, I mean he at a
1179
00:52:56,240 --> 00:53:00,480
minimum has has been lying to
Ashley A. 100% and and the word
1180
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,680
sality stuff.
Too.
1181
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,320
Oh yeah, that's a smokescreen.
At some point you just give up
1182
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,480
because it's just exhausting and
you can't engage with it
1183
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:08,440
anymore.
He.
1184
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:12,440
Was exhausted, exhausting this
whole like continual talking
1185
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,240
about former.
Glory, Oh my God.
1186
00:53:14,240 --> 00:53:18,280
Major Ick I I have met these men
and it's like.
1187
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,640
It could have been the
quarterback, yeah.
1188
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,360
Well, cool, so could I like, you
know what I like?
1189
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,160
Because they're over and
fleeting where they were.
1190
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,480
Yeah.
And when he first told that
1191
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,080
story, I was like, oh, that's
kind of sad.
1192
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,640
And then you realize, oh, it was
over a decade ago.
1193
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:35,120
Yeah.
Right.
1194
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,920
Like kind of time to move on.
Yeah.
1195
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,040
And then he had that moment and
once again, let's, you know, say
1196
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,400
that this wasn't a hot mic.
This wasn't a gotcha.
1197
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,480
Yeah.
Where he decides to shit on two
1198
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,160
of the most famous soccer
players in the world, Right?
1199
00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:50,400
Tim Howard and Sir David
Beckham.
1200
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:52,560
Yeah.
Oh, Beckham's not that good.
1201
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,760
He's not that good.
Why are you fucking kidding me?
1202
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,400
What?
Like you don't have to like the
1203
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,280
dude, but like you cannot say
he's not good, right?
1204
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,440
Like so like literally the whole
world knows it's wrong his name
1205
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,880
because he's just a kind of a
crappy player.
1206
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,520
They're wrong.
They are wrong.
1207
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:09,760
Serious.
They really.
1208
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,320
Should have seen Alex play,
which by the way, isn't even his
1209
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:13,160
real name.
Oh, that's right.
1210
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,960
It's Alec.
And he changed it at some point,
1211
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,640
yes, but, well, whatever.
We don't know why or I don't
1212
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,960
know why, maybe it's out there.
But yeah, that was wild.
1213
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,040
I sent you the clip.
I don't think you've watched it
1214
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,960
yet of Tim Howard and Landon
Donovan, another one of the best
1215
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,640
soccer players in the United
States, on their podcast talking
1216
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,040
about him.
It was so funny.
1217
00:54:33,240 --> 00:54:36,520
It made my heart happy.
And Tim Howard was like, you
1218
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,360
know what?
Just issue an apology on any
1219
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:39,960
platform.
I'll accept it.
1220
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,200
And Landon Donovan was like, you
know what?
1221
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,640
No, he just like rips him a new
one.
1222
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,560
It was amazing.
Amazing.
1223
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,600
The audacity, though, to compare
yourself to people at that
1224
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,160
level.
And compare yourself favorably.
1225
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:57,600
De Lulu Beckham isn't that good?
Are you fucking kidding me?
1226
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,520
Says the Australian currency day
trader who failed to be picked.
1227
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,080
Yeah, homosexual nomad.
Oh my God, he is such a
1228
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,040
homosexual.
I think he was literally
1229
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,560
homeless when they cast him.
For yes yes and I mean the way
1230
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:16,000
he just present I just I have
dated Alex let's just say yes
1231
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:21,800
you have yeah yeah I mean 100%
yeah like oh oh oh and she like
1232
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,760
was yeah I mean annoying but
well we.
1233
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:26,960
Didn't honestly, we didn't
really learn that much about
1234
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,480
Ashley because it was all Alex
talking nonsense, right.
1235
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,000
So like, you know, I I said
like, I don't like her because
1236
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,600
she's like MAGA, whatever.
Yeah, but you know what, Maybe
1237
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:37,760
we don't even know that that
well.
1238
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,920
So we just don't really know
anything about Ashley.
1239
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:43,240
But I I think that was a boss
move at the altar to be like,
1240
00:55:43,240 --> 00:55:46,040
you know what, no, I'm not even
going to let you yes, reject me.
1241
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,600
I'm going to reject you first.
And her little speech was kind
1242
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,440
of word salady as well.
And it went on a little too
1243
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:51,440
long.
But you know what?
1244
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,600
I don't hate the move.
I don't hate the move.
1245
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:59,280
I I mean, also they could have
done that not going to the
1246
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,800
wedding, right?
But they get paid extra to go to
1247
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,560
the wedding.
Well, that's, I mean, if it's,
1248
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:07,000
it's a lucrative move, but and,
and Alex needs it.
1249
00:56:09,240 --> 00:56:12,040
Oh, girl, we are so attuned.
I absolutely fucking love it.
1250
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,160
But yeah, I mean, you maybe
didn't have to do it in the
1251
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,120
States like that.
But you know, I I appreciate
1252
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,280
what she was acknowledging about
her growth.
1253
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,320
I have definitely been there
where a year before she had been
1254
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,040
like, I will accept this
mediocrity totally.
1255
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,760
I will.
And I have right.
1256
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,760
Like where you're like, I will
accept this limp ass excuse for
1257
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,720
a man who is always talking
about his former glory days that
1258
00:56:33,720 --> 00:56:36,880
actually never happened, but
like you know, and carry the
1259
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,840
weight here and just listen to
him talk by himself constantly.
1260
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,200
I did love that she called out
his integrity too.
1261
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:47,040
Yes, and the mom, but I don't.
Care mom is the narc too.
1262
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:51,520
Oh my God 100% like whenever he
called her and he didn't even
1263
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:53,400
know where she was and I was
like wait what?
1264
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,960
I know, right?
Do you guys ever chat?
1265
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:57,520
It doesn't seem like you ever
chat.
1266
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,400
I mean, here's the thing, I
guess, like I want to have some
1267
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,160
sympathy for Alex because he's
clearly damaged by a real shitty
1268
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:06,000
childhood and shitty parents,
you know, or parenting.
1269
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,080
We should say shitty parenting.
Let's call out the behavior, not
1270
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:13,880
the people, but, but still, at
this age, it's a whole choice to
1271
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:15,960
be that big of an asshole.
Yeah, because there are
1272
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,200
therapists available.
You can change.
1273
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,760
There are books.
Exactly.
1274
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:22,000
There are just like trying to be
a basic good human.
1275
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,960
And he was the other one that
made remarks he didn't have to
1276
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,200
make about her not being
attractive.
1277
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:28,760
Which you're like, are you?
You're like me.
1278
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,680
Are you blind?
A goddess, At least physically,
1279
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:32,720
she's so.
Gorgeous.
1280
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:36,160
And again, it's OK to have
preferences, but to frame it
1281
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,120
like that.
Oh my God, his hitting on
1282
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,000
Britney at the resort, do you
remember that?
1283
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,640
Yes, like ultimate disloyal
behaviour.
1284
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,360
I mean that he was dead to me
from that second. 100% like that
1285
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,120
was central, so disgusting, so
gross.
1286
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,800
And also the, well, I'm not
going to have sex with you so
1287
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,040
that you think you're not
enough.
1288
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,160
And honestly, bad behaviour.
I totally get what you say about
1289
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,720
the narcissist.
Like we can't diagnose, but we
1290
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,120
can also acknowledge tendencies.
Yeah, let's visit.
1291
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,240
Narcissistic tendencies tend to
start with a sob story.
1292
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,920
That's a good point.
It's a very documented pattern,
1293
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:12,560
right?
I have had this tragic thing
1294
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,640
happen to me.
Do you feel sorry for me or you
1295
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,920
don't yet?
OK, let me layer it on then and
1296
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:18,640
I'll maybe fake cry too.
Yeah.
1297
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,120
Again.
I have experience in this area,
1298
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,320
and once they've hooked your
heart, yeah, then they start
1299
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,360
shitting on you.
And then you suddenly find out,
1300
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,880
oh, you left a big chunk out of
that story.
1301
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,760
So I'd love to hear how it
really happened with Alex's knee
1302
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,040
surgery because I don't buy any
of that.
1303
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,440
Well, I don't know.
I mean, I'm agnostic on that.
1304
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:40,000
It could be legit.
You know, athletes have a very
1305
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:41,840
tenuous career at the best of
times, right?
1306
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,080
So who knows?
I'd.
1307
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,360
Just be surprised that he was as
glorious as.
1308
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,600
He could, you know, I haven't
looked anything up about it, but
1309
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:48,800
I would love to get some more
tea.
1310
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,160
Me too.
All right.
1311
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,480
Any final thoughts on Alex and
Ashley?
1312
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,200
Thank God you did not get
together, and thank God even
1313
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,000
more you didn't procreate.
Oh, for the sake of that, I
1314
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,600
didn't.
He never procreate I.
1315
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:05,320
Hope so too.
Like just to, I mean, yeah, Mr.
1316
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,960
Homosexual.
I yeah, I just, I don't really
1317
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:10,480
want to even wish him all the
best.
1318
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:11,680
I agree.
Yeah.
1319
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:13,560
You know what love is?
Blind casting people.
1320
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,520
Please do better.
Yeah, I know.
1321
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:19,160
Please cast more people like
Christine and Victoria.
1322
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,360
So let's end with them.
Because these two, I felt like
1323
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,040
they were just sunshine in human
form.
1324
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,440
I loved them both so much.
I love their relationship.
1325
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:28,600
I feel like they're actually
going to last.
1326
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,920
I do, too.
Not since Season 1 Lauren and
1327
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,000
Cameron have we had a couple
this amazing.
1328
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:39,360
I agree and they were just so
like I can't even describe it.
1329
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,680
There was just no tension in any
of.
1330
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,920
It they were so calming like
when both of them spoke I just
1331
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,480
felt my nervous system relax.
I was like, oh you sweeties,
1332
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,240
you're just lovely.
I love you both and.
1333
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,960
It's like you're you just feel
like their home will be calm
1334
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:54,840
their.
Kids.
1335
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,600
Will be loved like I'm making up
a whole life for them.
1336
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,320
No, but I think it's going to
happen, Yeah.
1337
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,440
I think they're going to have a
lovely life together.
1338
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,760
I think they're going to have
beautiful, well adjusted
1339
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,880
children who know that they are
loved by both their parents.
1340
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,320
I think they're going to.
Navigate all of it beautifully.
1341
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,720
I think so too.
And I, I love that, you know,
1342
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,200
they had the difficult
conversations in a really
1343
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:17,440
constructive way on camera,
like.
1344
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:19,880
You did.
The time was raising interracial
1345
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:21,520
children.
I thought that was beautifully.
1346
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,120
Done.
And her being like, I, you know,
1347
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:28,560
I will never fully know, like,
and it's my children and the way
1348
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:32,120
he responded to her.
Oh my God, so beautiful.
1349
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,760
OK, we'll just send the box.
Well, I assumed it was like, I
1350
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,320
assumed it was lingerie.
Yeah, probably.
1351
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,680
I mean, I don't think it was
like crazy sex toys.
1352
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,200
I think it was just some cute
like sexy lingerie for her.
1353
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,560
And shout out to him because.
He was very classy about it.
1354
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,600
Extremely classy, yes.
Like the whole season, Yes.
1355
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,960
He carried himself with just
perfect grace throughout the
1356
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,320
whole season.
Yeah, so did she.
1357
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,720
She did.
Sorry, I totally spoke over you
1358
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,720
there.
What were you gonna say about
1359
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:59,000
them?
The box?
1360
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,640
Cuz I had to.
Mention I can't remember.
1361
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,880
I'm so sorry, but they are
lovely.
1362
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,200
They're lovely.
I hope they're so happy
1363
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:06,800
together.
I I really do too.
1364
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:10,000
And you know, I think they both
have kind of well, they are
1365
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,920
proof, right.
They seem to have had like
1366
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,920
tricky family situations, right.
But they're they're working on
1367
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,000
it.
They've been open with each
1368
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:21,640
other like they are a perfect
example of nobody has to be
1369
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:24,440
perfect.
Yes, very few people have what
1370
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,040
you would deem the perfect
background.
1371
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:27,560
Nobody's perfect.
Nobody.
1372
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:32,440
And and yet they're just like,
let us come together the way we
1373
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:35,120
are and, and just be kind.
Yeah.
1374
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,200
Can they just like teach the the
dating people of the world how
1375
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:40,920
to do?
It Oh my God, that's what they
1376
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:42,600
should do.
A full time career.
1377
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:46,480
Yes, yeah, and yeah.
Once again, anyone casting love
1378
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:47,960
is blind.
Who's listening to this?
1379
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:50,760
Look, we love the dumpster fire.
We love to hate on some of these
1380
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,720
men, but please make better
choices because we would love to
1381
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,000
see at least one Victoria and
Christine every season.
1382
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,560
Yes.
And can we also just mention
1383
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:04,200
like in the the over like
arching theme is this is what I
1384
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:10,240
got like beautiful, successful
women for the most part, right?
1385
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:13,600
Like, I mean, a lot of them are
have very good jobs, very well
1386
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:19,360
educated, all gorgeous, all
talkative, good personalities.
1387
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,480
Arguably Christina Christina
side.
1388
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,840
I mean, she we all have
vulnerabilities and and sort of
1389
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:27,760
weak points, right?
But she was constructive how she
1390
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,960
expressed them.
All the other women under
1391
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:31,760
confident.
Yeah, that's right.
1392
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,640
All the men.
Way overconfidence.
1393
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,480
Like, except for Victoria, who
was appropriately confident,
1394
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,560
right?
Because he, he was just like.
1395
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,560
You know, because he wasn't
cocky, he was just calmly,
1396
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:44,880
peacefully confident and he can
back his shit up.
1397
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,040
Yes, he's a smart dude and I, I
read up on him like he's worked
1398
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:52,400
on all these like different
incarceration projects and like
1399
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,600
dude walks the walk, right?
Like in terms of, you know, he's
1400
01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,920
teaching people by policy now,
but he's actually been involved
1401
01:02:59,920 --> 01:03:02,640
like in the field work, you
know, on the ground kind of a
1402
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,760
thing.
And yeah, I just, it was such an
1403
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,880
interesting thing to see the
under confidence of these
1404
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:15,720
amazing humans and the inflated
delusional.
1405
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,840
Delusional.
Egos and confidence of these
1406
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:22,360
men, and to me it just, it
represented a lot of what we're
1407
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,000
seeing societally.
Yep, this tracks with everything
1408
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,480
we see on the apps.
Yes, sure does.
1409
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:33,600
And the fact that I've never
seen in such numbers so many
1410
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:35,800
women just go, you know what?
Absolutely.
1411
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:39,120
Not yeah, good for them.
Yes, that's what we should all
1412
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:43,160
be doing.
Yes, my God, this really was a
1413
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:47,320
good series in the way that I
think it was like a perfect
1414
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,800
reflection of the world.
Yeah, well, at least we got one
1415
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:52,800
out of seven couples.
That was good.
1416
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,200
Yay.
All right, friends, we are out
1417
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:59,320
of time, so thanks for joining
us for our cute little recap of
1418
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,280
Love Is Blind.
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1419
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:03,080
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1420
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:04,840
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1421
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:09,280
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01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:16,160
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01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:17,800
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01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:19,520
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1426
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:22,680
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01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,400
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1428
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,960
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1429
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,480
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1430
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:32,280
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1431
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:32,520
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